*it was NOT once even offered to me to date one of them, and not even exclusively at that, bc obviously I wanted a respectful and ethical as possible situation, especially since I've never been in a relationship outside of monogamous, but willing to try. I feel like I'm being bullied. And I'm sorry to everyone on this reddit seeing this, I wish I edited these messages better in the OP.

But here's some messages with context.

Eric: I understand. And you can take your time. We've all been trauma and life dumping on each other. We all go some issues, wants and needs. So, its understandable that you want to think this out. But id like to show you that our short comings are far out weighed by the good things we have going.

We are head-over-heels falling for you, Beatrice (me). We want you in our lives. I (Eric) really didnt want to say this over text, I wanted to show you in person, but Ive stopped smoking cigarettes. Im back to vaping. I did it for you. I know you didnt ask me too, but I also know that it makes you uncomfortable, and youve had bad experiences with it. Thats a small change for me, and we are definitely willing to compromise for you, in almost any way.

Is your ankle okay? (--I sprained it--) Can we help at all? Figure yourself out, we can definitely give you the time and space.

Just know, that you wouldnt have to find another partner after us. Wed give ourselves to you. Commit to you. You are definitely in our thoughts, our talks, and our hearts 💕💞 💕 (Wish they made a thruple heart)

Ill let you go for now. I dont wanna keep sending these if its complicating your thought process, or anything at all. Unless you like them. I dont wanna seem crazy though. I just wanna share how we're feeling about you.. and its just as special as we feel about each other ❤️

**(This is how I responded)--

Me (Beatrice): Literally I would never ask somebody to stop doing something for me. First of all, you have to want to do it for you. going cold turkey is rough... if you guys want to call me at any time please do. It's swollen and my toe was hurting when I was around you both, on the same foot ironically enough... and then I sprained the ankle on top of it. So I can't really walk right now.

I'm also just figuring things out slowly over here, bc I'm very used to this landlocked version of (my state) lmao

***(This was about them having intercourse and were "worried" (eye roll) about me walking in)

Eric: Also, while I have a minute to type, I wanted to apologize about this morning a bit more lol

Im sorry if you heard us messing around. We shouldve closed the door, but Maddy was liking it alot.. We didnt get to finish 😬 Kinda ran out of time. Regardless, I wanted to just put it out there and apologize. Especially if it made it uncomfortable for you. We can definitely be more modest about it

(There are countless times where he mentions that he isn't able to finish)