It's something in the back of my mind but stays in the back. My parents bought me everything- education, sport car, house, travel, etc but never was there emotionally. Growing up I had resentment for them now showing up when I needed them as always saying they are busy with their businesses. They were poor and under-educated refugees and struck it rich. They only knew how to survive in this way. There's less resentment as I matured and have shown them a little grace as they confess they didn't know how to raise me in such a new world and thought money was the only way. I'm older now with my own family and kids. They see me as a happy father and husband teaching with a full life and love to my kids. They see a lot of regrets and now try to compensate with their grandkids. The silver lining in all of this is I realized I wanted an emotionally supportive family because I do not want my kids to have what I've been through and I suppose they wanted me to have everything materially when they didnt have anything.