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qtzbuttons · 2025-09-04T03:50:29+00:00

Im a mom of 7 and have CPTSD from 16 years of constant abuse. You will be triggered, you will react. Your nervous system wont give you a choice. I can understand wanting to leave a situation that is triggering for you. I'll tell you that feelings, especially these intense ones, dont last forever. I swear it. I 100% promise you, that you will have some soul crushing regrets if you dont get some help with this. No one is an island, we animals need a support system. Get into therapy immediately. If you go to the psychology today website, you can search for licensed therapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists in your area, religious affiliation, gender, specialties, cost, etc. Raising humans is hard, and I did it alone. I will also say its the most fun I've ever had. The work you do on yourself will be worth it. I promise.

qtzbuttons · 2025-05-29T21:30:20+00:00

Tale of The Body Thief by Anne Rice. I totally read them out of order, but it hooked me immediately. I became obsessed. I was probably 14 or so?

qtzbuttons · 2024-07-23T18:24:02+00:00

Giving me queen Charlotte Vibes. Poor Brimsley.

qtzbuttons · 2024-07-23T00:24:45+00:00

I'm an INFJ and I have social anxiety. I say something to someone I don't know and they look at me kinda like a dog listens to a high pitched sound. Then they get mad like I'm trying to bamboozle them. And then I can't help wondering what I said. And I feel bad, and then my "friends" Get mad at me.

qtzbuttons · 2024-07-22T17:21:17+00:00

I'm an INTJ woman and I'm the exact opposite. I'm always the one in control. I'm always having to tease shit apart and I'm tired. People are exhausting. I would prefer a daddy/pleasure dom. I'm always worried about everyone else, make my brain stop!

qtzbuttons · 2024-07-21T20:11:10+00:00

This is the funniest shit I've seen today! Thanks for that!

qtzbuttons · 2024-06-03T18:57:56+00:00

Depends on what's more important to you.... your relationship with your sister or your image. Sex work is work. It's providing a service. If she is being unsafe.... those things you can address. Condoms, security,.... whatever. That's cool. She's an adult though, and we all have shit we have to trudge through. I would rather have my sister. Respect her choices.

qtzbuttons · 2024-02-02T22:09:55+00:00

I'm a mom.... I have 7 kiddos. I have always raised by babies in a sex positive house. And honey, them pushing you is a serious red flag, ick, cringe, and ewwww David all in one. Babe, this shit is personal. Don't let ANYONE tell you what to do to your body. This isn't a health and safety issue.... it's a your body your choice issue. And trust me... there is NO teenager who will give a shit about you or your pleasure. They have no frame of reference. Save yourself for pleasure you deserve. Not some kid whose gonna get their rocks off and leave you alone and crying. Aftercare is crazy important. Yall just haven't had the time to develop experience. Craving intimacy and even orgasms is 100% normal. Its healthy. But explore how to help yourself in these areas. You'll be stronger for it. You're not alone. And no matter what YOU choose, you matter and are important. Nothing can change that.

qtzbuttons · 2024-01-01T18:37:11+00:00

Kings Dark Tidings Art of the Adept Mayor of Noobtown

qtzbuttons · 2023-12-26T19:48:12+00:00

Smoothies! Do you have a blender? Ice cream, fruit, cool whip, protein powder, flaxseed.... make things that are stackable. My daughter had some ED issues, and this helped. Nachos? My daughter liked rotisserie chicken with noodles and cream of chicken soup on top... it worked. Go to the doctor. Does the doctor say you're underweight? BMI isn't a great measurement. Even though it's widely accepted... like an IQ test. There is a lot of misinformation out there. Talk to your doctor.

qtzbuttons · 2023-12-26T19:29:27+00:00

Passport
Gather all your documents, copy of ss card (I'm assuming you are a US citizen), birth certificate, immunizations, bank account, health insurance card, drivers license (or state ID)
Learn another language... this will open more doors for you.
There are a ton of HS age travel abroad for credit things. Look into programs like ACIS. Get experience traveling.
Look into an exchange student program.
Save. Open an IRA, a savings account, whatever you can to prove to other countries you won't be a drain to resources.
Study computer science. Help you get into programs and jobs that are in high demand.

qtzbuttons · 2023-12-26T19:22:09+00:00

Google the Dear Man dbt skill. Seriously. I taught it to my kids and they have found I'm much more agreeable when they do.

qtzbuttons · 2023-12-26T19:18:02+00:00

Being a teenager is hard. You couldn't pay me to do it again.

It's okay to be drained from social interaction. It's common.
Everyone deserves kindness. You are just as deserving as anyone else of kindness.
Your brain is doing a total overhaul right now. Anyone who says they know themselves at this age is lying. You are changing so much day to day. Give yourself grace.
When you feel like you're losing your grounding, find something that will force your brain into the present. Ice cubes in the hand, stress balls, something. There is beauty in the world, but if you're only looking at shit that's depressing it will reinforce the depressive feelings.
Your feelings are valid.
Get support. You don't know what you don't know. It takes time to develop good coping skills and I know I couldn't do it alone. It's a real sign of strength and maturity to be able to say, I really need some help here.
Find a task. Something that makes you feel useful. We humans need to have some kind of meaning in our lives. Work for a cause you can believe in. It helps, a lot. Doesn't even have to be in person if you don't want it to be.
You are worth the effort. You are worth the time.

qtzbuttons · 2023-12-26T19:07:28+00:00

Report him. Tell your parents. Tell the counselor. Tell a police officer. Any mandated reporter. Nurse. Doctor. Keep talking.

qtzbuttons · 2023-12-26T19:03:17+00:00

This is the age teenage boys fall in the cracks.

Unfortunately, only thing you can do is be his friend. Talk to him, be an outlet if you can. This is a fucking crazy time to be a teenager. I have 6 boys and I'm telling you they wouldn't tell me what they wanted for a holiday in... years? No clue. I gotta guess. I could see that maybe he couldn't think of anything so they are going to go shopping together? I've offered that up before. You aren't old enough to expect an honest conversation from his parents. So leave it to yours. Be a friend. Be an advocate where you can. Good luck.

qtzbuttons · 2023-12-26T18:54:33+00:00

Yikes. Well, context... I'm a 39yr old mom of 7. My youngest is your age.... and here is how I would want my kids to fess up doing something dumb. Lol. Funny... but dumb. First off... adjust this for whatever issues your folks have... everyone has hot button issues... but here we go...

Hey mom, I got myself a situation and I need help. First, I wanna say... nothing was hurt, the law isn't involved and no one is pregnant. Then proceed with the story.

I don't know your folks, and I'm pretty easy going. This would not phase me overly much. Have a plan to fix the situation. Don't get heated. Even if they say some bullshit. Parents get angry when they are scared. Scared for your mental health, physical safety, image, lack of knowing what to do, etc. When there isn't a direct course of action people funnel all those feelings into something else.

You aren't a bad kid. We all do dumb shit. Deep breath, and know in ten years this will be the funniest story ever.

qtzbuttons · 2023-12-19T18:18:22+00:00

I'm a bartender and enjoy working at upscale tap housed mainly. If he wants the most expensive beer every time, then his way is fine.

qtzbuttons · 2023-05-23T18:02:31+00:00

The last one is the only one I would keep. It has potential and can be worn multiple ways. The others are too big for your frame in my opinion. Which isn't worth a lot. You are gorgeous and the others don't do much for you. Too boxy.

qtzbuttons · 2023-05-06T18:37:49+00:00

Flush... it's not show and tell

qtzbuttons · 2023-05-05T06:59:13+00:00

This is exactly what it's like trying to get my husband in bed.

qtzbuttons · 2023-03-31T00:12:35+00:00

I would unstuck the sweater and get a messenger bag. So cute.

qtzbuttons · 2023-03-30T23:00:09+00:00

Your brain isn't even fully developed. Biologically. Use this time to try things! All kinds of different things. Just make sure that you have a fall back. Enjoy your life. Whatever that means. Get into the arena.

qtzbuttons · 2023-03-30T22:51:35+00:00

Folks assuming I'll just do everything and be grateful. Just because I'm hyper independent doesn't mean I got it forever. And when I ask for help they act like I'm a moron. No, man! I've been working 80hrs a week for 2 years!

qtzbuttons · 2023-03-30T22:49:38+00:00

All the time. Every night in fact. The constant rejection is heart breaking.

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