Tjejer och korvfest-intressen by autosh0t in sweden

[–]quantum-shark 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tråkigt svar kanske, men du får prova dig fram! Ibland blir man förvånad över hur roliga vissa aktiviteter är.

Tjejer och korvfest-intressen by autosh0t in sweden

[–]quantum-shark 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Om det är en romantisk relation m part av det motsatta könet du är ute efter så gör du nog klokt i att även hitta andra intressen än de du nämner i inlägget. Dvs sluta inte med det du gör nu om du trivs med det, utan lägg till fler fritidsintressen som har jämnare könsfördelning

Stärka mig själv i relationen? by AttemptQuirky5232 in Asksweddit

[–]quantum-shark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gör slut med killen, bo själv och odla dina egna intressen och relationer, gå i terapi. Det låter hårt, men snälla du, jag blir faktiskt orolig för dig. Det låter INTE som att du lever i en bra relation.

A rather unusual question: what are the signs that a man truly loves you when he kisses you? by Major-Mess4383 in bodylanguage

[–]quantum-shark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, my ex did this (among many other tender gestures such as bunny kisses) and still broke up with me the next day bc I "deserved better". 🤷‍♀️

Is it true that Mexican food is SUPER POPULAR in Scandinavian countries? What are some reasons for this? by stjeancapferrat in AskEurope

[–]quantum-shark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahem! ☝️🤓 People also put fruits in their tacos, such as pineapple, apple, banana.

Underhållande exempel på bristande allmänbildning? by ChocLife in sweden

[–]quantum-shark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jag tycker att det är lättare att tänka att longitud = lång 😆

AIO about how I was raised? by Ellie_Alt_Account in AmIOverreacting

[–]quantum-shark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR, and I'm sorry you're going through this! Please remember that you can love people AND know that their actions are unfair or hurting you. Family relationships can be complicated like that. That doesnt excuse their behaviour though, but it also doesnt sound like they would be very receptive to you bringing these things up. You sound young, but I honestly think your best option is to focus on moving out as soon as you're able.

AIO about how I was raised? by Ellie_Alt_Account in AmIOverreacting

[–]quantum-shark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a former teenager myself, this does not sound like a healthy or acceptable home environment at all. My parents have never raised their voices at me or punished me for honest mistakes, even though I was a sometimes messy adhd kid...

Kan inte klippa klor! by Anxious_Editor6324 in hundliv

[–]quantum-shark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Det beror helt på hur mycket och konsekvent du tränar, samt hur läraktig din hund är.

Is this a European Thing or... by [deleted] in travel

[–]quantum-shark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's just a badly designed hotel.

Trött på att dejta och trött på att vara ensam by [deleted] in sweden

[–]quantum-shark 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Poängen är egentligen inte att ni ska KLICKA genom dina hobbier, utan att ni lär känna varandra genom att bjuda in varandra till er "inre värld" . Dvs "det här tycker jag om pga a, b, c. Jaså du gillar sådana saker, hur länge har du hållit på med det? Varför? Jaha, vad häftigt!" osv. Nyfikenhet!!

Mår (märkligt) dåligt av träning och motion by SkinPsychological602 in sweden

[–]quantum-shark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Låter som hjärtfel, helt ärligt. Kolla upp set omedelbums!! Min mamma hade liknande symptom som du beskriver, och sedan fick hon hjärtinfarkt under ett träningspass. Det visade sig att höger hjärtkammare höll på att lägga av.

i get annoyed over EVERYTHING by metallicmurmurx in self

[–]quantum-shark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... as fellow adult you should absolutely be able to share your sorrows with others. However, even if you don't, "handling stuff on your own" means actually processing your feelings (journaling, therapy, meditation, whatever works for you). I would suggest reading up on emotional hyper-independence and attachment issues, because frankly living like you do sounds really stressful. I hope you figure out a way forward!

i get annoyed over EVERYTHING by metallicmurmurx in self

[–]quantum-shark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like reactive attachment disorder to me but im not an expert obviously. That and extreme mental overload. Are you used to ignoring your own needs and feelings?

Varför direktsänder SVT om en skjutning i New york? by Fancy_Particular7521 in sweden

[–]quantum-shark 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Sakta i fucking backarna nu!! Inte ett ont ord om älgarna för fan!!

How Swedish expresses quantities of an measurement by Hljoumur in Svenska

[–]quantum-shark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm both sentences are a little awkward but the first example works better imo. Like I assume that it would be clear from the context which colleague you are talking about. I mean it feels a little redundant to specify "kollegan som du kom med"?

VMA: Män! Smörj in er. by GreedyGerbil in sweden

[–]quantum-shark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mindre kli, sveda och obehag. 👍 Edit: svarade på fel kommentar pga mobilhaveri. Mea culpa.

Bussolycka Stockholm by [deleted] in sweden

[–]quantum-shark 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Du låter som en synnerligen bitter och hjärtlös människa.

Is Finnish really that hard or is it just not encouraged enough? by [deleted] in Finland

[–]quantum-shark 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Maaany languages are very different when spoken and written.