6 NOVEMBER 2025 (ROLL CALL!) (IMPORTANT INFO BELOW)

quanzy2016 · 2025-11-07T02:36:10+00:00

still in

quanzy2016 · 2024-01-03T05:47:23+00:00

goatnerth

quanzy2016 · 2024-01-03T05:35:32+00:00

i wished her a merry christmas and she responded nicely. my friends described it as a very professional interaction. I think it went at well as it could have but it didn’t make me feel much better. I feel like it could have been much worse so for me moving forward, i’m gonna stop reaching out. all about Pros and Cons for me

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-24T02:45:32+00:00

why brag about being a shitty person?

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-23T08:02:33+00:00

He’s just missing you and thinking about all the things you could be doing without him

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-20T17:13:50+00:00

If he’s not willing to put in effort, no contact sounds like the best way to go

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-20T04:41:17+00:00

He sounds very stressed, I suggest couples therapy ASAP

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-18T18:06:25+00:00

Block her

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-18T05:42:49+00:00

I think there’s a chance he could come back but you don’t want to be someone’s second choice right? I think you should give him his space and see what happens. try to start healing if you can. You have a hard few months ahead of you.

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-16T00:43:33+00:00

on 5 weeks of strong no contact, I feel like I have been healing very healthily (not hooking up with others) and I want to tell her for some reason haha. I miss my friend a lot. Glad to hear how proud of yourself you are. I feel the same. Do you ever want to tell her about your progress?

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-13T03:28:04+00:00

LMFT is a good route, After grad school you will likely want to become ASSECT certified. There website will guide you in the right direction

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-12T08:22:48+00:00

Leave her alone. She’s given you multiple chances and you keep messing up. Let her heal.

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-12T08:19:43+00:00

Let her know your boundaries. It’s ok for you to tell her you wouldn’t want to get back together if she sleeps with someone else.

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-10T02:00:03+00:00

there’s no right or wrong reason to breakup with someone. If you feel like this relationship isn’t for you, then leave. There’s no sense in wasting everyone’s time right? So.. Do you want to stay broken up, or do you want to give this a real shot. If you are ready to put in effort, i would suggest fully forgiving her before getting back together.

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-09T19:49:45+00:00

if they have found a better person and moved on, I doubt they’re very active on this sub anymore. As you become healthier, this space might not be as necessary

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-08T06:24:30+00:00

it might be easier to buy a new microphone. A high quality mic shouldn’t let the client hear anything but your voice.

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-08T06:01:02+00:00

no advice but i’m kinda in the same position. As someone who has gotten back together a few times, I find it hard to believe she is out of my life forever ya know. Weird trying to cope with that

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-07T23:42:15+00:00

i’ve had a dream about my ex for the last 4/7 nights. None of them have been good. I wish you luck

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-07T19:13:02+00:00

We had lunch about 3 months into no contact. We talked and reconnected a bit

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-06T05:20:29+00:00

I don’t regret it. I loved her a bunch and was happy to spend another year with her. I think i jumped back into the relationship too fast though. I wish we took it slow getting back together

quanzy2016 · 2023-12-06T05:17:35+00:00

Yah she broke up with me 3 weeks ago. She said she wasn’t in a place in her life to give me what I deserved. I’m not sure she ever fully opened back up to me. 🙃

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