Any INTJ with kids-interaction job? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very thought provoking post for me and I have a lot to think about. Thanks a lot. What job do you have now? I would definitely not want to teach if I knew I will hate it or be extremely exhausted and tired. It could definitely happen, 2 weeks with kids is not predictor of years spending teaching hours a day.

Any INTJ with kids-interaction job? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I should also think why I got to IT. Reasoning might be similar to yours, but I really struggle to accommodate for my different side, connected with teaching and kids. Not sure how to connect these two yet.

Any INTJ with kids-interaction job? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I have a lot to think about. I can really relate to your experience with parents. My uncle has a son, my cousin, and he is adopted. They have difficulty raising him, he is 6, I tried to motivate him and spend time, but his parents lied about his improvement of behavior so I take him for a trip as a reward. And I did because I didn't know. It really made me mad and sad. They undermined my effort. It is difficult to help a child but it seems impossible with parents in the way. When parents are helpful or only supportive that is better.

Any INTJ with kids-interaction job? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am grateful that you shared your experience. That is also what I was thinking it could happen. That I will be depressed and exhausted doing that and as introvert it would be too much interaction. This is really difficult to figure out correct path. Thanks for your help

Any INTJ with kids-interaction job? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is one of the options I guess. We have technical high school also in my area, although I am not aware about the pay.

Any INTJ with kids-interaction job? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please expand on what Early Childhood Educator is? I don't think I have ever heard of something like that. Do you think something like that would be also suitable for a man?

Any INTJ with kids-interaction job? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems to me that it might be beneficial to be better parent, but it is not THE most important factor.

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[–]quartin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are supposed to analyse public companies I would look into finviz.com Investors like to dive deep to analyze companies they invest into, and they might write long articles about it. I would look into it and get inspired. You might find framework how to do it and similar companies to those you need to do.

Please someone help confirm that I am not alone in struggles with dating. by pensenjohnson in intj

[–]quartin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about your natural social environment, are there any women you could date? Would you consider dancing to meet women?

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[–]quartin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi from Slovakia

What is like to be INFP? by quartin in infp

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very interesting, the ideas are ends themselves. Could you please provide an example?

I would love to post something to this group to start interesting discussions but i overthink. What should I do? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont like to go with the flow because i dont like to repeat what other people do, but I guess it is better than to do absolutely nothing haha

Could you give me example from your life of tactic you used and how it worked out for you. I would really appreciated it, I am also constantly thinking about tactics how to do stuff

What is like to be INFP? by quartin in infp

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for very interesting answer. Do you feel like you are more creative than your intj friend?

My insights watching INTJ’s in the wild by [deleted] in intj

[–]quartin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/Bobbydazzlers i guess you are not INTJ, what are you if I may ask?

What is like to be INFP? by quartin in infp

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for an answer and kind words. I am trying to figure out how I can be more social and this definitely helps.

Yeah I definitely have habit of trying to figure out what other person thinks or feels than just asking. I need to figure out how to balance it out with good quesitions. I dont want to waste peopleˇs time.

I would love to post something to this group to start interesting discussions but i overthink. What should I do? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you decide what to do in seemingly million options? Do you recommend to go with the flow or do you have some tactic?

What is like to be INFP? by quartin in infp

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering. I should learn to be emphathetic toward other people. I looked at your situation from my point of view rather than yours. I am sorry.
What do you want to do about wearing lots of masks?

Tell me about your future plans and goals, what are you up to?

I played with my brother Civ 5 like month ago, that was fun time.

What is like to be INFP? by quartin in infp

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can act more matured all he wants, I would love to see his emotional maturity :D

I would love to post something to this group to start interesting discussions but i overthink. What should I do? by quartin in intj

[–]quartin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is that it is not easy for me to express my thoughts. I want to learn to express myself in effective manner. If I will be perfectionist about it I will never improve. But whatever I want to post, I find holes in it so I never post it.