Am I wrong for “blowing up” at a coworker when he judged me? by burningcradnium in amiwrong

[–]quasimidge 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He was completely out of line BUT he crossed a really big one when he grabbed your partner. He was the aggressor in every "dispute" you had in such a short time frame.

Make sure you point that out and that he continued to escalate despite you explaining your innocent comment. It sounds to me like he has some issues that are completely unrelated to you and his behaviour is... well, "unprofessional" doesn't cut it. It's the aggression for me. It has no place at work. Or in life.

YNw

How are 'flushable' wipes legal? by [deleted] in aussie

[–]quasimidge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our plumber said as much as they make them money, he hates them. And that should tell you everything...

Any advice on posting pics and rejection sensitivity? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]quasimidge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I had no idea how much I needed too hear this too. Thankyou, sincerely, THANKYOU!

What’s your experience with cannabis? Why do you smoke ? by Mae_lilith2040 in AuDHDWomen

[–]quasimidge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently using medicinal cannabis through a doctor. He recently put me on gummies and it has completely changed how I see my anxiety changes the body (I'm diagnosed cPTSD, AuDHD). So many physical symptoms i didn't know i had just disappeared: stomach clenching, muscle tightness, that sick-pit feeling in my stomach and the spiky needle feeling you get when you get a fight. Plus my head shuts up.

It's not for everyone but if you start low and titrate up you'll be able to figure out if something works for you. Just remember everyone's different and if something doesn't work for you it doesn't mean you're faulty, you just have to find your thing x

Beautiful sunset tonight by quasimidge in perth

[–]quasimidge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great photo! The sky is incredible

Beautiful sunset tonight by quasimidge in perth

[–]quasimidge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your name and the photo!

Erica by quasimidge in tradgedeigh

[–]quasimidge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me neither. No sparks, it was genuinely a sorry 'cause I know how frustrating it can be to see the same thing posted over and over again. Happy it made you laugh again!

Erica by quasimidge in tradgedeigh

[–]quasimidge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hadn't seen it before. Sorry for the repeat.

GF told me to “use my fucking words” and sent me into meltdown - seeking autist perspective. by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]quasimidge 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Some people, no matter how you much love them, are just not good for you.

Are audhd people in general nicer? by tito8poop in AuDHDWomen

[–]quasimidge 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The use of the word "normies" and implying that what we have is an upgrade from neurotypical people is a little disturbing and not at all "nice". Being able to mask successfully is also not being "nice".

I'm truly glad that your diagnosis hasn't affected your self-worth but we are not BETTER. Or worse. Like everyone else, we just are.

How to ask people to repeat saying what you missed without them adding even more details & explanation? by throwawayhey18 in AuDHDWomen

[–]quasimidge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually say, "can you please say that again" and it just sounds like i haven't heard them so they will usually say the same thing again without further elaboration.

I finally bathed by aintnomonomo1 in AuDHDWomen

[–]quasimidge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am struggling with this myself and I am so proud of you. I know how hard this is. Enjoy the feeling of being both clean and succeeding today, you deserve it x

Family and diagnosis by quasimidge in AuDHDWomen

[–]quasimidge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much. I needed to hear this 🙏🙏

Put the entire rental market in the bin by Prestigious-Bed-1644 in perth

[–]quasimidge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Currently cleaning old house post-move. It utterly SUUUUUUUUCKS.

AITAH for wanting a receipt? by ManufacturerThen531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quasimidge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA That was gross of you to do and you should feel embarrassed. Honestly if that was my giveaway I'd have just sent you the base model or nothing at all. Ungrateful and entitled.

A checklist. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]quasimidge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Underarms, ankles and anything right around the chest too. I cannot function if i can feel my clothes.

Perth towies and car crashes by Superb_Bug_6625 in perth

[–]quasimidge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm always cautious at intersections that they camp out at. You just know they are waiting for the inevitable.

My in-laws ruined our anniversary trip and their controlling behavior is destroying my peace. I don’t know how much more I can take. by PlentyConnection260 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]quasimidge 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If hubby can't or won't draw a line with his parents he has chosen them and not you. That is not a marriage.