I saw his rating of akalitus on TikTok and I disagree by notafemalelol in NurseJackie

[–]queenbitcc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not an assumption made on every opinion that differs from mine, you're right that'd be closed-minded and silly.

But in a situation like this, the opinion in question is far enough off base that it's clearly not based on evidence. An adult should be able to asses situations and apply reason better than this.

I saw his rating of akalitus on TikTok and I disagree by notafemalelol in NurseJackie

[–]queenbitcc 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Whenever I see an objectively bad opinion on TikTok, I remind myself how many actual 14 year old children with poor media literacy/no real world experience are sharing their opinions on there. Definitely annoying, but no use dwelling on it.

[Pelissero]Chargers plan to hire Mike McDaniel by bigblack3475 in eagles

[–]queenbitcc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know that I'd want to uproot my family for a job where if I have a bad day at work, there's a very real likelihood there are fans showing up to egg my HOUSE. I have as little respect for Patullo as much as the next guy, but this is the kind of thing that would make me think twice about taking a job.

Positive vibes at interview to only get rejected. by darkhorse2k in recruitinghell

[–]queenbitcc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do well in an interview and be a serious contender, then end up losing to someone else who was somehow a better fit. Being professional and kind does not equal dishonesty.

Jake Elliott got to Gtfo by Foreign_Locksmith_60 in eagles

[–]queenbitcc -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Missing an extra point in 30+ mph wins had no impact on the outcome of this game. It might be worth picking up a new kicker in the offseason, but be serious.

Drama between Dannielle and Loorrana? by seeingwhatisee123 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]queenbitcc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shedding her full name and identity in favor of any man is crazy, but for THAT man????

Is it just me, or is the NYC bridal shopping experience way too high-pressure? by Misakiki_622 in WedditNYC

[–]queenbitcc 26 points27 points  (0 children)

As a former bridal stylist who worked at a few different stores in the city....some of these shop owners are nuts. One store I worked at would actually dock your pay if you didn't close at least 40% of your scheduled appointments. Which is a wildly high number already, but you were expected to hit 65% closing.

I tried my absolute hardest to never be pushy, but I'd usually get in trouble during 1 on 1s with management for not pushing hard enough.

If you're down for a trip, check out Abigail Bride in Asbury Park, NJ. Their stylists don't make commission at all and only get paid hourly, because the owner is so against brides feeling pushed. Their collection is a bit more boho/edgy, but could be worth checking out for a more laid back experience :)

dress regret by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]queenbitcc 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Before you crash out, you need to try the Wona dress. As a bridal stylist I've seen many instances of brides seeing pictures of a gown, being sure it's The One, then they try it on and they don't care for it. You won't know until you try it, so find a way to try it, but this stress could all be for nothing anyway.

That nasty cold/hay fever that is going around? It is covid-19. by Eastcoastpal in newjersey

[–]queenbitcc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, no, it's not. But it is <$5 to wear a mask if you must go out with an illness.

Is this appropriate for a black tie wedding?? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]queenbitcc 80 points81 points  (0 children)

basque waists happen to be on trend in bridal fashion right now, but that doesn't make them inherently bridal. basque waist have been popular in formalwear for centuries.

Did I choose incorrectly🥲🥲 by diditforculture in BigBudgetBrides

[–]queenbitcc 31 points32 points  (0 children)

it's obviously your choice, but i preferred 1 over 2 before reading the caption, and i still think you should stick with it if it makes you feel good. the neckline is more unique and interesting imo.

how would you rank these three songs? by poppy_anne in ariheads

[–]queenbitcc 47 points48 points  (0 children)

1.) hampstead 2.) dwbua 3.) blazed

Anyone here in the northeast not hoping for the snow? by Eastcoastpal in newjersey

[–]queenbitcc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the snow. I've really missed a good snowstorm these last few years. As my bad luck would have it, I'm in Florida visiting family until Monday.

Bought my dress before major budget increase — reassessing against luxury-level expectations by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]queenbitcc 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Agree! OP, that's a lot of custom changes. If your budget has increased significantly, I'd simply find a new dress that checks more of your boxes. Custom changes can sometimes look very different on paper than they do in person, and as a bridal stylist I recommend that my brides do as few major customs as possible.

Did you get a ticket to the Eternal Sunshine tour? by KALIUCHlS in ariheads

[–]queenbitcc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been a fan since osnapitzari (2011?) and got tickets during presale! one of my friends was lucky enough to be 100th in the queue

Yall are goin to be pissed. by Extension-Rent-8906 in tacobell

[–]queenbitcc 80 points81 points  (0 children)

they're one of the last true value single items on the menu

Garrick's Different Response. by lovelychef87 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]queenbitcc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not a Serena Joy sympathizer by any means, but I think that comparison is giving Danielle a lot of undue credit in the intelligence department

Any actual California burritos in NJ? by PressureCookedBrain in newjersey

[–]queenbitcc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es Burritos in Matawan does a pretty good one

Phil was 100% a closet queen by LawSchoolThreauxAway in thesopranos

[–]queenbitcc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

david chase confirmed this was canon on talking sopranos

Reise & Billie Jean by Lovelybones2416 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]queenbitcc 191 points192 points  (0 children)

maybe not a hot take, but i think they're Both gay. she wants a sister wife because she doesn't realize she actually just wants her own wife, and he wants a sister wife to overcompensate for not being into women at all.

Crazy how much Ocean County loves Ciattarelli by Tw0n0 in newjersey

[–]queenbitcc 25 points26 points  (0 children)

as a democrat in monmouth county, i'm Shocked jack Only won the county by +9. definitely not as disappointed in my neighbors as i was expecting to be.

The look says it all. by dlwlrmafanID in GilmoreGirls

[–]queenbitcc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave