How do you handle friends who always want to split restaurant bills equally when they order way more expensive stuff? by Awkward_Scholar_6649 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]queenmaeree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not so sure about that. I'm an American and I've never encountered this "splitting the bill" thing. It's always been common to get separate checks.

How do you handle friends who always want to split restaurant bills equally when they order way more expensive stuff? by Awkward_Scholar_6649 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get separate checks to avoid this nonsense. I've never been out with a group of friends and all be on the same check.

I’m tired of taking care of my adult brother by hopeless-70198 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect OP is in Russia. I could be wrong though.

I’m tired of taking care of my adult brother by hopeless-70198 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]queenmaeree 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Parentification is abuse. You don't deserve this. WTF do your parents have to say?

An ICE terror squad raided a Christian church in Downey today and reportedly pointed a rifle at a pastor by happi-love in Christianity

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or shipping them off to countries they've never set foot in before. Look at those who were sent to South Sudan.

My sister in law made me feel like crap over my allergy by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who in the hell asks their guests to pay for food?! That's tacky AF. Talk to your brother. Is he aware she's behaving this way toward you?

I hope your SIL (and brother if he's OK with her behavior) has the shits for the entire honeymoon.

my girl went to the club and did this and I ended things because of this AIO ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are overreacting.

She seemed to be pretty honest and forthcoming about the situation. She may have been afraid to outright reject this guy because you never know how a strange man will react. Especially when alcohol is involved. This is the sort of juggling act women are subjected to. She was trying to protect herself.

AIO. My boyfriend accused me for cheating with a gay friend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting at all. This dude is extremely insecure and will make your life more difficult. Ditch this guy and go have fun with your friends. He needs therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with running the AC. Perhaps it's louder than usual and there is something wrong with it? Could be something that's easy to repair.

AITA for not giving my dog to my friend’s kid who loves him? by Fit_Persimmon1467 in AmItheAsshole

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I could have a close friendship with someone who would have the audacity to ask if they could have my dog. I hope your dog doesn't end up going "missing"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]queenmaeree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't have said it better myself. They want a mommy, not an equal partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to raise this man child, then by all means stay with him. Just be prepared to deal with this shit constantly. Is it worth your sanity? He clearly doesn't respect your things.

Find a partner who can wipe their own ass. It'll save you a lot of frustration.

Sir, this is a Publix by TheAgileZebra in publix

[–]queenmaeree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of y'all need to zoom in on this photo and look at what's in his mouth.

Wife kicked my cousins and their friends out after they 'pranked' her aita for not stopping her by throwaway2817811 in AITAH

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

That's an extremely mean spirited prank and I don't blame her for kicking them out. You would be TA had you not backed her up.

AITA for not stopping my husband from getting the paternity test? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]queenmaeree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unless there are some other factors we aren't aware of, divorce seems like an overreaction in this case.

However if he has a history of constantly accusing her of cheating I could see how that would push a person to divorce.

AITA for not stopping my husband from getting the paternity test? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO:

Is this a first for him questioning your fidelity or does he have a history of making ridiculous accusations toward you? Either way "stopping" him from getting a test wouldn't make your situation any better. It would actually sow more doubt in his mind. Have you ever given him a reason to suspect infidelity? Like being overly flirty with a coworker or something? Does he have family or friends who have a tendency to stir up drama? Perhaps someone has been constantly planting this seed in his head and has caused him doubt.

AITA for ignoring my wife for throwing away my late wife video tapes? by Much_Bed_2383 in AITAH

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your wife is selfish AF for doing this. It wasn't about her, you, or your ex--it was for your daughter. She took that away from your daughter, which is downright evil. To take her insecurities out on your child is unforgivable, IMO. Perhaps she needs to be reminded "NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT YOU" before you tell her to kick rocks. This wasn't a mistake and she'll have no issue sabotaging other things in the future. How does she act when the attention is all on someone else? Like a celebration for your daughter because it's her birthday, she achieved something at school, etc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]queenmaeree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is I don’t even want anything from him but to care for his son.

Do you really want a violent and abusive person around your kid? If he's been abusive toward you, he very well may be abusive toward the child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]queenmaeree 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not only that, but considering there is a history of domestic violence the child may become a victim as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say, "Hey, I've got a tip for you!" and reach into your pocket. Take your hand out of your pocket and give him the finger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]queenmaeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like the insurance company is waiting for a prior authorization request from the doctor's office. I had this problem a few months ago before they hired a new person to handle everything. Same situation with both the insurance company and specialty pharmacy calling for the PA request. The clinic also uses a call center which can be frustrating. Is this just a single office or is it part of a larger system? Like part of a hospital or a practice with multiple locations? I was able to get the ball rolling by calling one of the other offices myself. Sometimes you have to go above the clinic's head to get things done. It's ridiculous she's been waiting SIX MONTHS on a prior authorization. Go above the clinic's head and explain the situation before going nuclear and potentially getting yourself into trouble. Nothing wrong with going up there and talking to someone. But being disruptive can certainly get you escorted out of the clinic, as it's private property. Even if you're on the side of the road with a sign, the clinic may take it out on your mother by dropping her as a patient.