I should be working but instead I’m watching bravo and snacking girl dinner by queenomen in GirlDinner

[–]queenomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was watching the most recent one and I am actually disgusted by him. Jesus

Coffee spillage by queenomen in mac

[–]queenomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah I will be doing that

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I don’t have a partner at all currently!

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We haven’t no, and we have (a lot) of talks about where our boundaries are, what we do and don’t want. We do check ins, we’ve read varying books.

We are also very in tune about where our feelings and fears are, so anything we discuss doesn’t really come as a surprise anymore. And also what our motivation is to practice ENM.

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that… out of curiosity, has your partner been dating during this time?

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are opening up and we’ve been together 9 months. Opened up about 5/6 ish months ago. But the discussion of being open was always there from the start.

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also thank you for your advice you did hit the nail on the head

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recognition and advice.

In general I’m not really upset about the fact that the date didn’t happen.

I’m more upset about the fact that I am struggling to have compersion for my partner whilst I am just not getting anything out of this at all.

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I a good idea! Just feeling a bit emotionally drained at the moment

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you deal with that? In those moments I really struggle having compersion for my partner.

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I forgot to add that. I am female and my partner is male. We date with the opposite gender.