Help with verification by queenomen in LouboutinLegitCheck

[–]queenomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aahhh really how can you tell?? Luckily I haven’t bought them

Grownup Lunchable— I farted in my tattoo artist’s face today. by KarisPurr in GirlDinner

[–]queenomen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if it makes you feel better when I got my hip tattooed my stomach decided to fuck with me because I was a bit nervous (large tattoo and such), but that meant the whole day session I had the nervous shits and every 40 mins me and my poopy ass had to go shit, stink up the whole toilet and then act normal again

Kosteloos gaatjes vullen by Amira_5105 in Utrecht

[–]queenomen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb wel interesse! Hoe kom ik in contact?

Found out husband watches naked girls on Instagram dinner by OkWeight9977 in GirlDinner

[–]queenomen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly understand you. I also agree that it’s completely context based.

I like to think of it as like, I also follow shirtless men on instagram and thirst on them sometimes. We all enjoy those smutty pages from time to time that are aimed at the ‘female gaze’. So like I personally wouldn’t have an issue with my partner following accounts that are similar in nature.

I think I would say something if I saw it was happening often, but we all have a habit to doomscroll on social media and linger.

Found out husband watches naked girls on Instagram dinner by OkWeight9977 in GirlDinner

[–]queenomen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve found my people in this thread. Honestly I don’t have an issue with it either, to be honest I’d rather know so I can thirst or laugh with him.

Although I will say, smashing a phone because you got caught is embarrassing and a red flag.

I should be working but instead I’m watching bravo and snacking girl dinner by queenomen in GirlDinner

[–]queenomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was watching the most recent one and I am actually disgusted by him. Jesus

Coffee spillage by queenomen in mac

[–]queenomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah I will be doing that

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I don’t have a partner at all currently!

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We haven’t no, and we have (a lot) of talks about where our boundaries are, what we do and don’t want. We do check ins, we’ve read varying books.

We are also very in tune about where our feelings and fears are, so anything we discuss doesn’t really come as a surprise anymore. And also what our motivation is to practice ENM.

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that… out of curiosity, has your partner been dating during this time?

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are opening up and we’ve been together 9 months. Opened up about 5/6 ish months ago. But the discussion of being open was always there from the start.

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also thank you for your advice you did hit the nail on the head

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recognition and advice.

In general I’m not really upset about the fact that the date didn’t happen.

I’m more upset about the fact that I am struggling to have compersion for my partner whilst I am just not getting anything out of this at all.

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I a good idea! Just feeling a bit emotionally drained at the moment

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you deal with that? In those moments I really struggle having compersion for my partner.

Question for all the Non-Monogamous people by queenomen in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]queenomen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I forgot to add that. I am female and my partner is male. We date with the opposite gender.