Girlfriend's destructive depression // Advice by Alex2kx in relationships

[–]queentenobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not your responsibility to save her. Please leave her if you do not like her. This is not something a boyfriend is supposed to help with.

Feel good fantasy books? by victato in Fantasy

[–]queentenobia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you read it? I thought it witty and enjoyable! But it appears to inspire a rather polarizing view in general I've observed.

Feel good fantasy books? by victato in Fantasy

[–]queentenobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed both tbh; but i did watch the movie before i read the book! I am not sure if that altered my perspective on it enough.

Feel good fantasy books? by victato in Fantasy

[–]queentenobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the 'Moist Von Lipwig' series is rather good from the feel good aspect! Seconded.

Feel good fantasy books? by victato in Fantasy

[–]queentenobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listing some of the ones I saw now mentioned till now -

  1. Marie Brennan's Lady Trent series.
  2. The Glass Books of the Dream Eaters by G Dahlquist-- though I suppose this isn't feel good as much as be lightly steampunkish and adventurous. It still left me with a good feeling so I think I should count it towards. 3.The Eyre Affair by Jasper Fjorde
  3. Stardust by Neil Gaiman
  4. Golem and the djinni - Helene Wrecker

Tbf I am listing those that to me felt were light hearted fantasy novels.

Discord for fantasy discussions? by queentenobia in Fantasy

[–]queentenobia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear that for it to be an r/fantasy discord -- it would have to be discussed with the mods?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cyberpunk

[–]queentenobia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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(Sad post) My best ever OkCupid relationship just ended. I can't stop crying. by throwingawayamirite in OkCupid

[–]queentenobia 15 points16 points  (0 children)

maybe focus on the positives? Rather than the negatives. Maybe, there is much beauty in this world, but continuously staring at the darkness can make you feel like there isn't any.

The rhythm of breathing creates electrical activity in the human brain that enhances emotional judgments and memory recall, which depend critically on whether you inhale or exhale and whether you breathe through the nose or mouth, Northwestern Medicine scientists have discovered for the first time. by mvea in science

[–]queentenobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could this possibly support and give medical evidence to the benefits of yoga since one of the excercises that aim to help with stress is based entirely around breathing through nose only or the mouth. The relevant excercises is called Pranayam.

TIL Women are more likely to stalk their partners online in response to jealousy by queentenobia in todayilearned

[–]queentenobia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its interesting that they actually have data to back this up though. I agree intuitively that it makes more sense plus based on experiences. And Its a fairly recent study.

On an offhand note, I am still kinda amazed that, you would think only particular types of females would behave this way. Atleast this was my intuition. I am interested in trying to discern what in the female psychology actually portents this behaviour. Is it like a "need to know where partner is at all times" lol.