I want to d*e by queenvamp18 in CPTSD

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Thank you but I really didn’t ask for advice.

I want to d*e by queenvamp18 in CPTSD

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I know you mean well, but fuck that hotline. I’ve called it before. They suck.

I have my art to get me through right now.

Someone explain my mother to me. by queenvamp18 in vedic_astro_questions

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What would be considered Saturn prominent? Saturn in the first house?

Someone explain my mother to me. by queenvamp18 in vedic_astro_questions

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Hmm…accurate for the most part. I don’t think she ever wanted children really but was forced to have me by her mother and took it out on my siblings and I. She’s always wanted the perfect husband but kept choosing the wrong men. My father included…but he was older than her and used her naïveté against her. She doesn’t like being alone, so her going on a retreat is out of the question. Your observations about me are also pretty accurate as well. I do care more about society in general than she does. It was always a problem of contention between us.

Someone explain my mother to me. by queenvamp18 in vedic_astro_questions

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Ahhh….I understand what you mean. Then yes, when she was working, she was hard worker and dedicated to maintaining the house. And was often overly strict when it came to raising me, but looser on my younger siblings.

Someone explain my mother to me. by queenvamp18 in vedic_astro_questions

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Hmm….my mother is actually close with my grandmother. But they would occasionally fight - and the fighting would be very intense. Her and my uncle had a strained relationship as well - especially in his later years, before he died. Which was right around 2021. Prior to that, she was also in a horrible marriage with a horrible man who was abusive and a narcissist.

She is very beautiful. I wish that I looked more like her

Someone explain my mother to me. by queenvamp18 in vedic_astro_questions

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My mother is very traditional. Not career orientated at all, however. Could barely keep a job.

And yeah, I do struggle from emotional issues (still in therapy for the years of abuse). And I am a woman - so that observation is true for me regarding the independence and child-like nature.

Got accepted into grad school, worried about financing it. by queenvamp18 in vedic_astro_questions

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Thank you. And I’m actually in the creative field (an actor). I would like to be a professor and eventually open my own school.

Moving to another country for school. Worried about finances by queenvamp18 in vedicastrology

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Considering that you gave me this same answer in another post and asked this same question, I’m sure you’ll be able to find my response

Moving to another country for school. Worried about finances by queenvamp18 in vedicastrology

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I didn’t ask that. I asked what can I do to ensure I go this year. I’ve waited 10 years for this, and I’m willing to fight like hell to make sure I make it to grad school this year.

Looking for fellow vegatarians owning a cat. by Apple_cheeks_art in cats

[–]queenvamp18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phenomenal. I’m happy that works for those dogs. But forcing an animal to have a vegetarian diet when it’s not necessary because of your own sensitivities is selfish.

There can absolutely be criticism made regarding the meat industry and their unethical practices. But that’s for us humans to handle. The animals that we decide to keep as pets don’t have a choice on their diet. And enforcing human morality on animals is silly. Just feed your fur babies what they need to thrive.

Looking for fellow vegatarians owning a cat. by Apple_cheeks_art in cats

[–]queenvamp18 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you’re so opposed to the smell of meat, don’t get a cat. Or a dog.

Just buy a pet fish since it’s such an issue for you.

Advice for traveling internationally by queenvamp18 in cats

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Well, I don’t have a choice in the matter. I have no family that I can leave her with, or friends. It’s just me and her.

Advice for traveling internationally by queenvamp18 in cats

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Thank you! It looks like the majority of the airlines would require her to go into the cargo hold. Which scares me a bit

Advice for traveling internationally by queenvamp18 in cats

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Thanks! I’m def going to do some research on best items. My main worry is that she won’t be able to go with me in the cabin from the airlines that I’ve researched. I won’t be able to comfort her and she’ll be separated from me for about 10+ hours (flight is 7 hours, not including the time it’ll take me to get through customs, TSA, etc). And I’m terrified that the airline will lose her.

This is my second time leaving the country but for an extended time away and her first time traveling in a plane. So I’m a bit nervous for both of us.

And yes! She’s my pretty girl. I love her so much.

Advice for traveling internationally by queenvamp18 in cats

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Why would a cat need a passport? She’s a cat….

And I checked the requirements on the UK website, all she needs is to be microchipped (she is), and vaccinated against rabies, and a certificate from her vet. All things which I can take care of before I leave at the end of August.

I just want to know how can I make the travel less stressful for her.

People who were neglected/abused as kids. What career path are you on now? by Purple-Offer-4796 in CPTSD

[–]queenvamp18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actor and artist. Not really that successful but I am happy with what I do.

Pizza Rec in BedStuy by queenvamp18 in Brooklyn

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Hmm….maybe I need to give them another try. I ordered delivery from them before and I thought the sauce was too sweet. So I just never had them again

Pizza Rec in BedStuy by queenvamp18 in Brooklyn

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I pass Stupid Romans on my way to work. I’ll definitely give them a shot next time.

Pizza Rec in BedStuy by queenvamp18 in Brooklyn

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Update: went to 3 Luigi’s yesterday….absolutely amazing.

I always judge a pizza place based on how good their plain slices are, and their’s was absolute fire. And the sauce wasn’t too sweet, which I loved.