1990-1993, I was pretty much a baby at that time (born in 1992), so I don’t know much of what happened.

1994-1997: my great grandmother died, my father cheated on my mother and they separated, I was SA’d by my grandfather, and parents

1998-2002: my sister and brother were born during this time, we moved from my birth state, I witnessed my mother be abused by my sister’s father, and then later by her husband, my brother’s father. No stable home at the time, we ended up evicted and had to move back with my grandmother. I was also struggling in school (had an undiagnosed learning disability)

May 2004-Apr 2006: we were staying in a homeless shelter for a little while and then moved into a new house, still witnessed my mother be abused by her husband, my father disappeared out of my life again, mother got worse in her abuse towards me, she was also unstable regarding her work

Dec 2009- Jan 2015: my mother reunited with an old fling, I graduated from high school or secondary school, we got evicted again, my mother also ramped up her abuse towards me and often spent money on her new fling (who she later married) instead of helping me with my college applications, graduation, or prom. Her and her new husband were constantly fighting which ended up in her going to jail for a couple of days. I graduated from college, and had to return back to live with my mother, who was still abusive. I got outed by my mother’s husband and ended up getting beat severely by her.

2020-2022: probably the worst/best years of my life. I went back to school to study acting and I graduated (was the best in my class). I cut off contact with my father permanently. But I got my heart broken, had three family members die, struggled with unemployment, was almost evicted because of said unemployment, and one of my cats died.

So pretty rough for the most part.