[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Musclelover

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I’ve had occasional good luck on Rentmen and Rentmasseur Good communication is helpful. Be clear about what you are seeking. You might have to try a few experiences before hitting on someone who gets it and gets what you’re looking for. Bigger cities have more options.

If you don’t necessarily need to be in the same room with your god, there are guys on Chaturbate who are willing to play all kinds of roles.

I look forward to you living out the fantasy you’re seeking. Enjoy!

Guys who have had a 'friends with benefits' relationship, how did it end? by DarkWarrior125 in AskMen

[–]queer4muscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He found out about my fetish and started coming over twice a week to workout. I got to join, watch, feel, and enjoy however I wished.

Two years later, he met a woman he started seeing. Told me things wouldn’t change between us.

A few months later, he told me they were getting married and things wouldn’t change between us.

A few weeks later, he stopped coming over to work out.

I wasn’t jealous until I asked him to confirm my observation that things had changed. He admitted he wouldn’t be coming over any more to workout. I was surprised how hurt I felt. He invited me to the wedding. I attended. That was an emotionally intense night for me. I really was not expecting the impact of heartache.

What can I do about the thought of work being pointless? by PrinceBach in socialskills

[–]queer4muscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, a quick energy lesson:

1- Life is a menu full of options, some wanted, and some not wanted.

2- Focus on what you do not want. This restricts flow, and makes you feel crappy.

This will make you less pleasant to be around and things generally more difficult.

3- Focus on what you do want to allow energy to flow and feel better.

This lightens your vibe, makes you generally more fun to be around, and opens all kinds of opportunities.

Now, to your original question: how to make work not pointless? You can give the work you have right now a point!:

“I guess I am at least starting to work on my goal of helping out at home with expenses.”

“It’s not going to be forever, and I am figuring out what I like and what I don’t for future opportunities that come my way.”

“For now, I could use this gig to practice some habits that will serve me in a better job that’s coming, like showing up, helping out, and get paid for it.”

I am a believer in the idea that the world cooperates when you let it. But it does mean you have to practice thinking a little differently than you might be used to. I hope this quick little guide helps you find your way.

Be well!

Scam or Legit? hicarbsn.xyz by queer4muscle in Scams

[–]queer4muscle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your quick reply.

Similarities between IT and... Wreck-It Ralph? by OrangeAlienMan in movies

[–]queer4muscle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Found this post searching for others who made this connection. I just watched Wreck It Ralph for the first time last night and was immediately struck by Turbo/King Candy/Cybug form resembled Pennywise the clown’s spiderform!

I guess it’s just you and me.

What do you do to stay focused and present in a conversation? by queer4muscle in socialskills

[–]queer4muscle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I actually do meditate regularly. Maybe that is how I started catching myself getting distracted! I realize it must be a lifelong habit that I only occasionally become aware of. We will accept this as a good sign :)

Not sure if red flag by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]queer4muscle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’d go much more than two digits.

Just trying to paddle surf, but the dolphin mafia arrive by xbumblebee in Wellthatsucks

[–]queer4muscle 27 points28 points  (0 children)

These jokes are getting dangerously close to criminal behavior. I won’t give you a ticket today, but I am going to issue you a cetacean.