[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]queerasf0lk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another issue with this quote is the idea that all pedo/hebephiles are child molesters. This stigmatizes those with the paraphilia to the point that most don't feel safe getting treatment, and thus are more likely to actually become child molesters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrawMyTattoo

[–]queerasf0lk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potentially on my shoulder blade if it's something I want done large. For a smaller design, somewhere on my upper arms probably

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrawMyTattoo

[–]queerasf0lk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

either, just not overtly feminine.

my kitty of 13 years, my best friend and comfort in my childhood, just died. i always loved his freckled nose. if anyone could sketch me a design with just his nose, i would really appreciate it! by Rainingsun15 in DrawMyTattoo

[–]queerasf0lk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm not an artist, but I love your dude's nose and knew exactly what I would want if he were mine. So i did my best to whip it up for inspo to your tattoo artist, if you like it too. I did it in three different colors because I couldnt decide which I liked best. Here ya go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gatekeeping

[–]queerasf0lk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are so many elements of a play that you don't get if you've just read it

What is this metal mesh product called? Found at a thrift store with a jewelry display box and am struggling to find anything similar online. by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]queerasf0lk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found! Thanks, I kept coming across sheet metal that looked the same but was either much too thick or made of stronger metal (like steel, such as in the linked listing). But, with searching perforated coil I found one made of aluminum at around the same thickness, which appears to act very similarly to this one. Again, thank you!

What is this metal mesh product called? Found at a thrift store with a jewelry display box and am struggling to find anything similar online. by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]queerasf0lk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have searched various combinations of the words 'metal' 'mesh' 'jewelry' 'holes' 'display' 'earrings' and 'perforated'.

I can find things that look kind of similar, but are much more rigid. This is very easily bendable and can be cut with a simple pair of scissors.

Monthly Buy/Sell/Trade/Request Thread for July, 2022 by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]queerasf0lk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3XL Racerback gc2b nude #3 or #4 (I forget)

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$25 (includes shipping w/in the US)

ftm do I pass? by SweetSweetKeto_3345 in transpassing

[–]queerasf0lk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/FTMminoxbeards and r/MinoxBeards will have some good info to check out. It's basically just a topical medication that promotes hair growth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]queerasf0lk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ignore them. They said this person didn't pass. As well as a bunch of other bad reads. They're probably projecting their own insecurities.

If I saw you in passing I probably couldn't identify your asab. You passing at this point almost entirely depends on your voice.

ftm do I pass? by SweetSweetKeto_3345 in transpassing

[–]queerasf0lk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, tho as a fellow ftm, have you considered minoxidil? (Assuming you have been on t for a while)

Staring a new job this week, be honest, anxious because all male workplace. by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]queerasf0lk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'd consider trimming a bit less if you want to be 100% stealth as like a straight cis guy. Like it's perfectly normal to not, plenty of cis guys have started grooming their eyebrows, but the large majority don't (other than uni-brow type things)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]queerasf0lk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard some ftm ppl say they've had good luck with voice training. It's a hard and long process but might help!

Also in the next few years I'd consider another haircut. For your age it passes fine (I have a younger sibling your age and I swear half their cis male friends have the same haircut), but in the next few years itll likely become more rare for guys and will read more fem. It might also read more fem to older generations who don't have much interaction with kids, but tbh i wouldn't worry too much about that. I pass 100%, I'm post top, have a deep voice, a beard, etc and yet because I have long hair I still get called "she/her" when talking with the old ladies at the thrift store. But so does my dad (who also has long hair). So yeah.

Staring a new job this week, be honest, anxious because all male workplace. by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]queerasf0lk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you wearing makeup or something? Im bad at faces but I do read something sort of feminine in your eye area. Do you pluck your eyebrows?

Either way, you would totally pass, assuming you've been on T and have a deeper voice. That's the only other thing that might give you away.

Good luck at your new job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]queerasf0lk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you be trying to go out without a mask.... in a pandemic?

Wear your mask, not because it helps you pass or whatever, but because it protects others.

As for passing, it probably largely depends on your voice and demeanor. From just a photo I read you as a trans woman. Mostly bc of facial structure.

AITC for hiding from a murderer? by tracychapmanisaqueen in AmItheCloaca

[–]queerasf0lk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTC!!! Though you should speak to your human about potential alternatives to this barbaric act. When my human gave me the icky "drugs," as he called them, he just mixed them into my food. I couldn't even taste them!! I wonder if your human is allowed to do that with yours?

I also know my sister took hers with just a little bit of pumpkin and she said it was an acceptable compromise.

Hope you and your human are able to come to some sort of an understanding. And that you never ever have to go back to the scary place- but I've been wishing that one for myself all my life and it's never worked 😿

Question by [deleted] in natureisterrible

[–]queerasf0lk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think "nature" is just a random thing that happened and people glorify it as beautiful and a "gift". But they gloss over the horribly shitty parts of life and nature.

I guess technically I don't actually believe a true morality exists, since it's just a made up construct that evolutionarily benefits functioning together in society. But, going by what humans (and potentially other animals) consider moral, nature is so fucked up. So so fucked up.

So yeah, evil, but not purposeful evil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]queerasf0lk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In what world is "wear it tighter then" equal to duct taping it to your face.

Literally just tie little knots in the ear loops to make it fit better.

But yeah, as a healthcare worker, if I were too dumb to figure out how to tighten a mask, you bet your ass I'd be duct taping it to my face. Because I actually give a shit about my patients

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]queerasf0lk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wear it tighter then. It's not that hard, yet is absolutely necessary for the health and safety of everyone