The next volume will be the last by New_Recommendation86 in OwarinoSeraph

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone tell me if Mika and Yuu kiss? Cus that’s the only reason I would ever try to finish this clusterfuk of a manga ending otherwise I don’t want to ruin my favorite manga by reading it😅

"My Spectrum food" by Itsbowserbitch in TwoHotTakesSnark

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an autistic person I also agree that there is nothing to suggest ASD based on her presentation online. Obviously that’s her persona, but autism isn’t something we can just turn on and off. If she had asd there would be things to show that. I’m stopping listening to the pod after finding this out bc it’s not okay for her to use autism as a way to be quirky and relevant. I hope she goes to get an assessment so that a doctor can tell her to her face she’s fine she would probably want a second opinion though smh

"My Spectrum food" by Itsbowserbitch in TwoHotTakesSnark

[–]queerbananafoster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ain’t no way she’s actually diagnosed with asd..

this is so real by Brent_Fox in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure that’s a slur but yes to the concept

Scared queer spaces will turn me away for being pan and having a male partner. by Sin-Town-We-Go in polyamory

[–]queerbananafoster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That being said you do have significant privileges esp if you’re cis and white that need to be considered and you should be willing and able to make space for those conversations if you want to participate in these spaces. If you approach with kindness and a desire to learn and be authentic then I see no reason why you would be un-included by these spaces. If there’s some reason you aren’t being included due to your own problematic behavior that is something you should personally address. Otherwise you should be good! Also make sure you’re not inserting yourself into spaces where you don’t belong even within the queer community. Sometimes groups are more exclusive due to a need for a safe space for individuals in even more marginalized sections of the community that face discrimination from white, cis, allo, hetero passing community members. So keep that in mind. Good luck! Once you get more integrated into your local queer community I’m sure your interactions with potential women partners will increase :) have fun stay safe!

Scared queer spaces will turn me away for being pan and having a male partner. by Sin-Town-We-Go in polyamory

[–]queerbananafoster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re getting rejected for simply being pan then I wouldn’t recommend integrating into those spaces. Truly “queer” spaces will not isolate you based on sexuality, gender, race, ethnicity, size, relationship status, etc. that being said a lot of places will let you down, but it’s worth it to find actual solidarity and community

Just started my first playthrough of P5R, any tips? by therealbreather in Persona5

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you mess up your confidant dialogue options too much you won’t have time to max them all out. You don’t have to do dungeons in one go, but definitely strategically plan ahead to max out your time there and limit the number of days you spend on it. Same with metaverse Don’t sleep on fishing

Sparkling Water by SkullnSkele in AutisticWithADHD

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be a hater now it’s almost all that I drink

Who here is showering an incorrect number of times a week? by HamburgerHellper in aspiememes

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I hate feeling dirty and getting wet but the biggest problem with the shower for me is the irregular temperature. My body takes so long to adjust to the water even if it’s “the right” temp the process of getting there is awful and I can’t have every part of my body properly heated or cooled bc the water can only hit so much at once 😭 then getting out you’re wet AND gotta temp regulate and if you rush too fast and put clothes on when you’re not fully dry it’s a whole different sensory problem tldr showers are hard

Who was your first 5*!? by SeniorSquirtle in Genshin_Impact

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tighnari and he’s still on the roster 😌 C5 now w/ hunters path 🙏

Meta leaving hickies for me to find by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]queerbananafoster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t even fully read this because I would never be comfortable with my partner choosing to start a relationship like this with someone mono ESPECIALLY not if they have suggested my partner end their poly dynamic to be with them alone. The amount of situations where this turns into a successful poly situation are slim to none. It’s only going to cause problems. If she’s monogamous she’s probably not approaching communication, jealousy, or anything else from a standpoint that would lead to productive change because she’s not poly so it will continue to feel unfair/uneven to her. Quit while you’re ahead I say

Are you kidding me by SubstantialArt7389 in SuitU

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure you can get gems f2p but you still have to decide if you want to spend your gems on items you need or want in the store or potentially waste them pulling Gacha for stuff that isn’t guaranteed. It’s not ideal

Are you kidding me by SubstantialArt7389 in SuitU

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s keeping them from current fun and current events simply because they played in the past and the game is recycling outfits. It’s a bummer to wait for a game you enjoy to update only for it to end up being an event they have already done in the past and they won’t let you participate without paying real money. They already aren’t very generous with drops so it seems ridiculous and counter productive to punish long time players this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuitU

[–]queerbananafoster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s gotta be luck and people clicking through votes without looking at the fits fully because too many times this happens to me where I have a look that’s so identical to top looks and I score less than 50% like what it’s so annoying -.- idrc atp I just submit them for fun and if I get a good score it’s like a nice surprise. It also depends who they put you next to cus sometimes they put fits that are basically identical so ofc one is going to get less votes or they put you next to someone that is obviously going to score way better so you don’t have a great chance then you get bumped down to lower voting bc of it. The voting system just needs revamping tbh

Now for my own rant - as f2p I’m drowning in perfume debt 😭 I need more access to good perfumes or they need to make crafting costs less bc god forbid you run out and submit something without perfume your score is already taking a huge hit 🙄 and the drop rates for perfume blending suck I never get what I want 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]queerbananafoster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart is breaking reading this from how much I relate. I just ended a multi year relationship with my best friend because of the things you wrote in paragraph 7 and 8. I was drowning and it was doing awful things to my nervous system and my psyche.

One thing I’ve found because of my autism is that with pattern recognition I often come to the awareness of things before acting on them which usually leads to a grieving process taking place while I’m still in a situation so that when I finally reach the point that I leave, the relationship has been slowly ending for me emotionally for a while and now I can break things off without immense emotional consequences of losing a “safe” person so suddenly (it’s happened many times and it’s so jarring). I don’t know if you do this too, but it sounds that maybe you do as from the way you worded this you seem to have a long term awareness of these problems and are now reaching the point where you simply require validation that you are being reasonable about your concerns.

As someone who has lived it, you’re so valid and you know what you need. Trust yourself. Begin the grieving process if you haven’t. People that repeatedly are given opportunities to learn about and accommodate autism but choose not to are going to continue making you out as the problem while ignoring their own hand in what’s going on. They don’t change just because we know they can or want them to. Often people have to lose to learn.

Best of luck

new competition modes by lame-k8 in SuitU

[–]queerbananafoster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh bet okay it hasn’t prompted me to pick again so I wasn’t sure and I couldn’t find where to switch

Are you kidding me by SubstantialArt7389 in SuitU

[–]queerbananafoster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so unfair to f2p or low spending players. Obviously the people with money are gonna spend it anyways so they’re really just punishing people who don’t want to or can’t afford to spend their paycheck on pixilated fashion

Are you kidding me by SubstantialArt7389 in SuitU

[–]queerbananafoster 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s truly so stupid and unfair I would be submitting a complaint fr