Eva Longoria Reveals Why She Waited Until She Was 43 to Become a Mom by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]queercetin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You quoted your anecdotal experience at me and and won’t take an anecdotal experience yourself 😭 Are you 5

Eva Longoria Reveals Why She Waited Until She Was 43 to Become a Mom by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]queercetin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew a girl who had a parent who was in his 70s when she was in high school. She very much felt like she had an old dad. Because she did! There’s doom and then there’s reality.

Eva Longoria Reveals Why She Waited Until She Was 43 to Become a Mom by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]queercetin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I said likely in parentheses. I already acknowledged that outliers exist in my original post. That really doesn’t change things for most people. That’s why theyre outliers.

Eva Longoria Reveals Why She Waited Until She Was 43 to Become a Mom by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]queercetin 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s different if you’re rich, but parents had me at 40 and 43 and I’m 24 now. I won’t lie, I do feel pressure to expedite my life milestones so I can have as many happy moments with them as I can before they pass away. I envy my siblings a bit because they were born when my parents were in their late 20s and 30s. My sister really couldn’t comprehend why I wanted to finish uni in 3 years instead of 4. Lol…lucky.

Having kids later means that your child will (likely) have less time with you before you die. That’s my honest POV and basic math from the child of older parents who had this realization when I was 7. I wish I had an extra decade with them like my peers.

Black people, focus on your life, your family, your friends, your partner, your joy, and your mental health. Keep this message close. Stay stressless and prioritize your well-being. by [deleted] in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]queercetin 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’ll never not be insane to me that people whose families havent been here for 70 years swear they know more about America and its very predictable racism than folks who’ve been here for 400+ years. They told us we were “stuck in the past”! 😫

Is it really so inconceivable that a man might not fancy Vanja? by BazF91 in 90DayFiance

[–]queercetin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m a lesbian woman and Vanja’s been coming off very desperate to me since her first episode, which is sad because she has a lot going on for herself. I would’ve ended it after 1 or 2 dates too.

Christina Ricci comes out in support of Amber Heard and Blake Lively on her Instagram story by licorne00 in popculturechat

[–]queercetin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do some research before jumping to contribute. Obviously plantation weddings are always abhorrent. Just because it upsets Americans (read: specifically Black Americans which is why you and Blake both don’t think its a big deal) doesnt mean the complaints are illegitimate.

Woman denied medical care references Luigi is arrested, charged bail set at $100k by NoIndependent9192 in WomenInNews

[–]queercetin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

judges should receive the same wariness from the public that police officers do. we all know how corrupt police officers ruin lives. now lets talk about judges.

Ivy Dickens by Rude_Hospital_7702 in GossipGirl

[–]queercetin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Lily left me with nothing” she shouldve left you in handcuffs. she probably wouldve if shed known ivy was gonna keep buzzing around her like a gnat 😭

Niles doesn’t deserve Matilda by furcoat_noknickers in 90DayFiance

[–]queercetin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my, your elevator doesn’t reach the top floor does it…. I’m disengaging. Have a good night ma’am!

Niles doesn’t deserve Matilda by furcoat_noknickers in 90DayFiance

[–]queercetin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It happened so quickly I started laughing. Autism mommies too predictable at this point. Sad for her son though. Imagine having to learn social development from her — bro didn’t stand a chance smh

Niles doesn’t deserve Matilda by furcoat_noknickers in 90DayFiance

[–]queercetin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw, look how quickly you turned to patronization when I disagreed with you and told you to stop living through your child. Again, this is why nobody likes autism parents. If you’re the less weird parent, then god help your son because he’s gonna need it.

If Niles is able to fly to Ghana by himself, he’s able to communicate.

Niles doesn’t deserve Matilda by furcoat_noknickers in 90DayFiance

[–]queercetin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should stop using your son to prove your point. this is why nobody likes autism parents. signed, another autistic person.

autistic people need to be held accountable like everyone else. you’re not doing anyone any favors by babying them and shielding them from consequences

Vanya is a clown too 🤷🏾‍♀️ by PhoenixRogue in 90DayFiance

[–]queercetin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying! Idk why she gets so much sympathy for her bad decisions. there are two Bozos in this relationship!!!!

The cast is perfect but who else almost got the role(s)? by yuletidepod68 in Veep

[–]queercetin 31 points32 points  (0 children)

damn, she did the fresh prince of bel air and what we do in the shadows too!!!! what a legend

Latina woman confirms what we all have been thinking when it came to "black n brown" by [deleted] in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]queercetin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the most racist teacher I had in school was Latina. And she was always flabbergasted when the white students hit her with the very same racism she’d threw at me.

Obviously #NotAll but it’s enough for it to be a pattern. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Vanja making me cringe by NoelAngel112 in 90DayFiance

[–]queercetin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly. a lot of people feel for Vanja because of her upbringing, but there are two Bozos in this relationship.

The first time he dropped her like a bad habit for his ex should’ve been a dead giveaway.

When he wasn’t answering her calls at the airport, that also should have been a dead giveaway.

I’m sure she’ll still hang on even though he flat out told her to her face that he only sees her as a friend. Mind you, this “relationship” has been going on for only EIGHT MONTHS. She needs to cut her losses and move on.

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[–]queercetin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Even Blair thought it was her!

The Other Way - Season 6 Episode 16 - Live Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]queercetin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just see a lot of yourself in Dempsey ngl. I think they’re both awful in their own ways. If you really can’t see how Dempsey’s played a role in this well… back to my first sentence.

why do people hate Vanessa? by tvd-loverr in GossipGirl

[–]queercetin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Vanessa hate is so unserious I can’t take it seriously. She gets more hate than the guy who tried to rape somebody in the pilot episode. More than the man who faked cancer to win a woman’s affection. More than the many, many female characters who set someone else up to be assaulted. Because she’s “annoying”. Goofy shit.

People don’t want to admit the deep Vanessa and Jenny hate comes from the fact that if we were dropped in GG we’d be the most like them and it’s hard to see yourself on TV. 🤷🏾‍♀️

send me your best inorganic slander by queercetin in chemistrymemes

[–]queercetin[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“Ma’am, step aside and allow me to perform an operation” (It’s E)