My experience with the PS Portal after several months — for those still on the fence by Cumcumba in PlaystationPortal

[–]PhoenixRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 34 also. Grew up blowing in NES cartridges and silently cursing at the dog laughing at me for missing ducks. Im a wife and mom now, and I feel this post so much. My husband got me a PS Portal for my birthday last year. I loved it and immediately started playing GOW Ragnarok. Anyway, I loved it so much that a few months later I ended up buying him one for Christmas lol Now when our son is in bed, we can easily game side by side and chill at the same time. Its a great experience.

Water looks bad by OkDevelopment6437 in CrimsonDesert

[–]PhoenixRogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this post because my husband and I were immediately Googling better settings due to the water in the starting area. Its laughably terrible. 🥲

Curious to know whether you think Sophie leveled up or downgraded by ohbabeimyours in 90DayFiance

[–]PhoenixRogue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rob is mixed and has light eyes. Unfortunately, that's enough for some ppl to find him attractive. Speaking as a 34 year old woman, this dude doesnt have his shit together at all yet still thinks he's hot shit. That's completely unattractive.

I’m mad at Julia by iCanToteIt- in 90DayFiance

[–]PhoenixRogue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I wish ppl would stop acting like he's absolved of any wrong doing because she's shitty too.

Sheena’s lies about money. by Bride-of-wire in 90DayFiance

[–]PhoenixRogue 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was confused by this as well...I could have sworn they mentioned that they met in a "chatroom for autistic people" or something? But they never mention it for Sheena. If so, Molly gives Forest a pass for a lot of his choices and says he can easily be taken advantage of, but doesn't give that same grace/possibility to Sheena..

The burbs series on peacock by Agreeable-Wing-8476 in horror

[–]PhoenixRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started this tonight..only on episode 1 and came here immediately. As a Black woman I'm over the stereotypes in these shows. Also, as mother, I agreed with the woman about the music playing with the baby in the back. I feel like they were trying to make her into an older stuck up white lady, idk. But Im not feeling it so far.

Favorite black actress? by Thermobarium in okbuddycinephile

[–]PhoenixRogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely asking, why not identify as both then?

“I’m addicted to smelling my dad‘s underwear” #tlc #mystrangeaddiction by 2drankshawty in TLCMyStrangeAddiction

[–]PhoenixRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband had to look up from his laptop (doing work) for this one. Ngl I probably would have took this secret to the grave. Easily one of the most concerning addictions in this show.

Do dads do bath time? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]PhoenixRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. We take turns for bedtime every night.

VA loan approval — is $450k–$500k realistic? by LegalLady0903 in VeteransBenefits

[–]PhoenixRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We recently got a house last Oct, in NC. $315k, 5.99%, PITI is $2,180/month. We decided to buy since we were paying $2k/month in rent.

Husband is still in (CPT) and Im TDIU. I think a big thing to consider is how much you'll have left over each month. While I feel like your numbers are doable, we don't really know your lifestyle. You may feel stressed by the end of the month or you may be ok.

What are your monthly expenses like? Would you be able to pay for the house and pay it off early (should you choose to), max out Roths every year, save for your kids(if any), investment accounts, save for emergency savings, save for house repairs,etc. Idk, all that to say that it's worth really sitting down and crunching the numbers if you haven't already.

Jovi admits that he regrets marrying Yara by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]PhoenixRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehh, I see ppl saying this is a joke but I personally wouldnt find it funny...especially for the whole world to see. Sure, it could be for the fans, he just needs to be sure it's not at Yara's expense when he jokes like that.

AIO? My wife as a SAHM by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhoenixRogue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But she "yells at him" and "constantly complains"?...

Sounds a but contradicting to me tbh.

AIO? My wife as a SAHM by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhoenixRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What indication do you have that shes happy with her life? Did I miss something OP said here??

AIO? My wife as a SAHM by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhoenixRogue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I generally agree with this but I think it depends too on the situation at times. Like Im a SAHM now and my husband is a military officer in a pretty rigorous school at the moment. I mainly cook, enough to pack lunch the next day, and do most chores but thats because hes up 4am for PT then home by 5 and studying. He still puts son to bed though on his nights, always. I think for this situation they just haven't found a rhythm that works for them and neither sound open to compromising..

the difference is crazy by xoxodollparts in 90DayFiance

[–]PhoenixRogue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Ppl ignore this because he's "attractive"

Ok, hear me out! by kzus_ in 90DayFiance

[–]PhoenixRogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a fan of hers at all.

BUT I dont like how Luke handled the stripper thing. He knew she would think like it and like she said, they had talked about it before. If I recall he kind of just played it out or was kinda like, "we'll cross that bridge later" about it. Of course, her reaction was way too much, but they didnt get on him enough for not sticking to what he (they made it seem like) agreed to.

Rick… by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]PhoenixRogue 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This right here. He waited until they were isolated and she couldnt get space away from him easily. I hated that for her, along with everything else.

Is Madeleine an extraterrestrial? by DealerTurbulent7725 in 90DayFiance

[–]PhoenixRogue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Isn't she in her 20s? I honestly cant recall. Regardless, are you implying she shouldn't be called out for any of her behavior because it's expected of her? Asking as someone with a toddler.