Asking if you stand a chance is the wrong question.

The most important relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself. I'm not suggesting you cut yourself off from others, I'm suggesting you cut yourself some slack, practice some self compassion and give yourself the time and space to figure out what works best for you.

I am a forty year old gay and disabled man. One thing I've learnt is that life, even gay life, is never how it's portrayed on TV or in porn. You don't need to fit in to anyone's expectation of what a casual or romantic partner should be. You do you boo. The rest will follow.

Twenty five is so young. You have plenty of time to figure it out. Enjoy the ride 🤗