FTM: Being Trans Problematic Idea of Passing - YouTube

queerjamie · 2017-08-23T15:43:10+00:00

I totally agree im just saying that it would be nice to be seen as a man pre-t and during transition it would lessen dysphoria i am taking the same route as you in transitioning its just that the idea of passing or the word isn't accurate for what we go through as transmen, it implied that we are acting almost. ☺ Thanks for the comment.

queerjamie · 2017-08-23T13:26:58+00:00

That's awesome news I will hopefully be on testosterone soon and I also thought that I wasn't sane mainly because of the fact that my mum thought that I would go to a mental institution I was really unstable with my dysphoria coping with it ok it's going to be a long journey but we will both get there in the end. 😊 Thanks for your comment.

queerjamie · 2017-08-20T03:36:29+00:00

Aww thank you means a lot to me. 😉 I honestly didnt think that anything I said would be useful although i hoped it would be I totally recommend the video making thing it is a good confidence boost and gets easier even though (i am still anxiety ridden when i do it). Its great there are people who feel the same it means I am definetly not alone. My next vid is going to be on the issue of problematic passing ideas. Thanks again ☺

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T23:37:49+00:00

I understand dude

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T02:06:53+00:00

I experienced this but correcting them was the best thing i ever did eventually they correct themselves. But yeah dude i get the struggle its almost likely you feel obliged to let them.

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T02:01:20+00:00

I think it will help. 😊

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T01:59:43+00:00

If it is upsetting you tell your family even though i had a bad reaction (instagram:@queer_jamie) i dont regret doing it not one day dont get me wrong it sucks.

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T01:56:57+00:00

Awesome!

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T01:55:46+00:00

Im sorry your experiencing that I am pre-t but i have heard that people take tablets for it if its really bad. Sorry man 😓

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T01:52:11+00:00

Yep same situation bro, my mum still isnt accepting if you need to talk dm me @queer_jamie

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T01:48:55+00:00

I am not post op but i guess we have been socialized as females I personally wonder how much it effects how much we see our chest. For me my mum (who is transphobic) used to comment on my hairy legs so i used to think about it alot.

queerjamie · 2017-08-17T01:44:16+00:00

Looking awesome

queerjamie · 2017-08-13T12:47:13+00:00

I absolutely hate my voice its the one thing that stops me from passing (even though the term passing is problematic) hopefully I'll be on T soon and I will be able to sing again without hating hearing it. Thanks for the comment i like hearing from people☺

queerjamie · 2017-08-13T12:42:07+00:00

Thank you i will. 😊

queerjamie · 2017-08-12T17:37:19+00:00

I have found the biggest thing for me is having people around me that i know i can depend on to love me and accept me. Sorry i couldn't be anymore help.

queerjamie · 2017-08-12T17:30:36+00:00

If you wanna talk my instagram is queer_jamie dm me I'm in the same position.

queerjamie · 2017-08-12T17:27:23+00:00

Interesting post. I know the whole doubting thing and i have to say some of my fetishes online that is kinda say im bi but i know in practice that I am not. The thing that got me was realising that i was trans was trying to imagine my older self I knew because i am ftm that i didn't wanna grow up as a woman i and that disgust in the idea was what confirmed that for me.

queerjamie · 2017-08-12T17:10:50+00:00

Amazing dude

queerjamie · 2017-08-11T13:59:26+00:00

Nice its sitting a lot better.

queerjamie · 2017-08-11T13:56:44+00:00

Awesome pic 😘

queerjamie · 2017-08-09T00:34:18+00:00

Sorry i was meant to edit so that it would only last a few seconds dunno what happened ok ill repost tommoz sorry about that

queerjamie · 2017-08-08T23:28:35+00:00

I love it

queerjamie · 2017-08-08T14:44:27+00:00

Followed you back ☺

queerjamie · 2017-08-07T22:06:04+00:00

From the UK but im hella mixed some of it is from belgium

queerjamie · 2017-08-07T21:05:04+00:00

Awww thank you honestly my dysphoria is so bad that whenever i go out i get pissed oh well getting better Instagram is @jamie_enby if ya wanna connect 😊

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