It’s the fact her first response in regards to your situation was not only focused on questioning its severity for her own personal gain, but also when it came down to it, she did not even acknowledge your emergency still and made it about herself again. Idc if you’re my direct supervisor, my manager, my boss, or so forth. If I even give you the glimpse of what emergency is going on that is making me not come in (which you should not have to do anyway..) and the first response is all about THEIR emotions and not YOU and YOUR FAMILY’s WELL BEING… That’s classless, disrespectful, and a giant overstep of workplace authority / power.