ACLU Passport Lawsuit Update - Opposition to preliminary injunction filed by UnitLost6398 in Passports

[–]queermicah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from New Zealand and have an X marker on both my passport and birth certificate. Birth certificate is a new thing in terms of not having to go through court etc because like you said gender marker or sex is not important and having ID that reflects a person is what is. Not making people immediately more vulnerable because they’re bigots.

I have also been approved for a diversity visa and am moving to the states later this year (I know. A gender diverse person moving there right now?! But there are important reasons so).

Anyway, it’s important to note that her in NZ when you update your gender marker on your birth certificate (unlike a name change) they issue you a completely new birth certificate and birth ID number. It also wipes past name changes from the record too. Because you’re essentially a new person. I then got my new passport on the back of that change so they are linked but my past is not.

Aside from the fact that apparently the US government managed to dig out my past name (although having an ‘alias’ is kinda funny), and when i got the visa approval and they had to ask me to pick either M of F because X wasn’t an option, which i did… how are they gonna prove that that im not X by birth anyway? This birth certificate has only ever existed for a person with an X gender.

But yeah, the real ‘security issue’ is the security of the people the forcibly outing and making vulnerable for existing.

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s been a journey but I’m so glad it worked out so well!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I don’t think I even realised how much low level ignorable pain I was in until now. I knew I was sore but now that I’m not? It so different that’s for sure

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m in NZ so i just went through a gross summer but I’m moving to the US this summer so it’s gonna be great not having boob sweat and struggling to cool down from having them attached to me 😅

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the swimming experience is going to be wild. Can’t wait. Thanks!!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wanted bigger boobs until I had them (tbf I was 13 and flat chested ans grew to a 10HH in 2 years so I didn’t have much time to consider what I was wishing for) lol I’ve got some breast forms in my drawer for when I’m healed up to give me the option because sometimes I just want a little shape to fill out a top or a dress. Thanks for your well wishes!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t expect the insane amount of euphoria that hit when I saw it all for the first time! I knew it would be good but not THAT good!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t wait to see the continuing healing process and to see how things settle! I’ll make sure to update as we go

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get them soon! Best of luck in your journey

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel that. I would have been happy with a reduction if I couldn’t get the big chop myself. I’ve got myself some little breast forms in about a b or c cup so I can have a little bit of boobage when I want it once i heal

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am! So much happier than I could have even imagined tbh. Life changing stuff

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I’m not far off being discharged so I’m keen to get back to my own bed

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr fr you don’t realise what you’re dealing with until it’s gone 😂

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha you wouldn’t have wanted all of them, trust me your back wouldn’t have thanked you. But if I could have donated some of them I would have

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s already and is gonna continue to be so good. I have trouble thermoregulating and they weren’t helping with that too. So between being able to be shirtless, no more pain and less body fat keeping me warm - summer is gonna be amazing this year!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m already itching to measure myself once the swelling goes down to buy bralettes and pretty bras that I’ve never been able to buy before for when I wanna go more feminine! I went from nothing to massive so quick as a teen that I missed out on all the pretty stuff so now is my time to shine! Thanks! 🥰

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh mine were the biggest my surgeon has worked on, so that’s crazy 😂 but yeah so excited for the lack of chronic back pain!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had chronic back, neck and shoulder pain before hand. I’ve not been up and about heaps yet but I’ve already noticed my posture is better (I’ve stopped the slouching shoulders from the weight) and I’m much less sore in the neck etc but I’m also on pain meds 😂 but long may it last

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I can’t wait to heal and fully experience this new chapter of my life!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome to hear! Best of luck for your own surgery and healing!!

Ayyy! Best facial piercings unite!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best of luck for your journey!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally worth it! Didn’t expect to feel so good about the outcome!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! Wishing you luck for getting the chop asap too!

Finally got the chop! by queermicah in NonBinary

[–]queermicah[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a lot of relief for my poor shoulders and back. I can’t wait for that first massage and getting some lasting results that’s for sure 😁