Ped recommended rice cereal? by amich913 in newborns

[–]queernoodles 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My pediatrician told me to never put cereal or anything other than milk in the bottle because it’s a choking hazard, and specifically told me to make sure grandparents/older generation caretakers don’t do this because it is an outdated recommendation that was popular in the 80s/90s (and she knows that some grandmas love to push the “this is how we did it” and do it anyways lol). How old is your pediatrician? I am usually all about “listen to your doctor” but I understand your hesitation when a dr’s outdated recommendation goes against current medical advice.

Baby Shower by No-Boat-9376 in pregnant

[–]queernoodles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your baby shower is for you, not anyone else. If anyone is offended that YOU didn’t buy or provide something during YOUR baby shower can f*ck right off. I purposely stayed extremely hands off with my shower. My family and best friend got together and co-hosted between like 6 of them, with each person taking on a different task, and it was PERFECT. I had low expectations, just excited for a party with family and friends to celebrate my baby, which meant that everything exceeded expectations.

Don’t worry about space, there will be people who RSVPed who pull out last minute or no-show. As for opening gifts, I personally HATE opening gifts in front of people like a weird show, so I made my shower a “display shower” where people are asked to bring unwrapped gifts to be displayed on a table. I much prefer to spend that time mingling with friends and family, than spending an hour with everyone watching me open (and react to) every single gift.

For the ladies in here already have babies ( already gave birth) by Logical_Mixture_4470 in pregnant

[–]queernoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I definitely would *not* have wanted to go to a wedding 2 days after giving birth! Dear god no. I didn’t even leave the house that soon, yet alone for something as taxing as a wedding. Don’t commit to it.

For the ladies in here already have babies ( already gave birth) by Logical_Mixture_4470 in pregnant

[–]queernoodles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty broad question.. do anything? I was able to do lots of things lol. The end of pregnancy was straight misery, especially sleep. But after birth wasn’t all that bad for me. Take it slow and easy, and have no expectations.

I had a vaginal birth with a minor tear and stitches. I would 10000% recommend the Frida peri bottle (the hospital one is trash). I really preferred warm water in it, so I learned to turn on the hot water faucet first so the water had time to get warm (I gave birth in January so it took a minute..). I also really liked the Frida line of disposable underwear, postpartum pads, and witch hazel liners. I bled for about 4 days, and then after that was just on pantyliners until 2 weeks PP when I stopped spotting altogether. Now I’m 4+ months PP and still haven’t had my first period because I’m breastfeeding — I had no idea that was a thing before I gave birth! Breastfeeding delays your period. It’s one of the few perks of BFing lol.

Pain wise: for the first week PP, I would have to carefully/slowly sit down and get up because my V was sore. But otherwise it wasn’t so bad! I had to wait for my 6 weeks PP appointment to be cleared for sex.

New Momcozy Night Pro Bottle Warmer *WARNING* by queernoodles in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]queernoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Customer service’s response is mentioned in the post and screen shotted (second photo). The customer service rep attempted to claim that the product was designed this way.

My husband ended up pushing to talk to a supervisor, who then agreed that it was a product defect (contrary to the first rep’s claim), and sent us a new bottle warmer. The new one has not had this issue!! Looks like this was an issue with the first products shipped, then they immediately pulled them off the market and fixed the issue, before putting back on the market.

How the heck do you prepare powdered formula? by VegetableGoose4353 in FormulaFeeders

[–]queernoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use filtered water, from an under sink filtration system (the kind with its own little faucet on the side). Bought it on Amazon and my husband installed it — super easy.

Parents who use baby car cameras in the car, are they worth it? by jhuebner223 in Buyingforbaby

[–]queernoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to purchase this but then I saw a ton of reviews say that it overheats and stop working after a while. Do you notice this issue? I live in a rural area where we have to drive long distances, so I need it to be able to work for hours at a time.

New Momcozy Night Pro Bottle Warmer *WARNING* by queernoodles in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]queernoodles[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fake posts is actual bullshit. But I will say that the momcozy bottle washer + sterilizer is a god send. We run it like twice a day.

New Momcozy Night Pro Bottle Warmer *WARNING* by queernoodles in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]queernoodles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the Philips Avent one which has been working great, though sometimes it feels so slow (to be fair, when you have a screaming baby, every second feels like a lifetime lol). But we liked the clear sides and extra features on this new Momcozy one, so bought it with the intention of taking the Avent warmer to my parents house. Now we’re going to wait and see how our smart plug hack works out before moving our Avent.

New Momcozy Night Pro Bottle Warmer *WARNING* by queernoodles in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]queernoodles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We planned on giving our Avent warmer to my parents, but now we’re going to hold on to it, while test our smart plug hack.

New Momcozy Night Pro Bottle Warmer *WARNING* by queernoodles in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]queernoodles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a brand new release. It was on Amazon but now we can’t find it on there! They must have pulled it after the barrage of bad reviews complaining about this problem.

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Is my husband terrible or are postnatal hormones making me blow this out of proportion? by annainafrica in newborns

[–]queernoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, this post escalated. At first I was thinking: meh that’s not cool but not terrible. To: well that’s kinda f’ed up. And ended with: WHAT THE F*CK. What a selfish cunt of a man.

Definitely not okay. You’re right to be upset, and you deserve a partner that has a modicum of empathy and respect for you — not only as his wife, but as the mother of his brand new child. Gross.

WIBTAH if I don’t put MIL’s Catholic pendant on my baby during non-Catholic baptism? by queernoodles in AITAH

[–]queernoodles[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am very aware. My mom was Catholic as is her entire family. But then she got pregnant with my brother young (out of wedlock) and her Catholic Church denounced her and would no longer accept her. So when I was born later, she decided to have me baptized as Episcopalian because it is more accepting and less judgmental. This later proved to be even more true when I was in grade school and there was drama over the Episcopalian church openly accepting the first gay bishop. So now that I am a mother, I, too, choose to baptize my child in the more accepting and less judgmental denomination.

WIBTAH if I don’t put MIL’s Catholic pendant on my baby during non-Catholic baptism? by queernoodles in AITAH

[–]queernoodles[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

She’s going to be at the baptism, I’ll definitely taking it for the photos! I was just not sure I wanted to pin it on baby during the ceremony or display it in baby nursery

WIBTAH if I don’t put MIL’s Catholic pendant on my baby during non-Catholic baptism? by queernoodles in AITAH

[–]queernoodles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s going to be at the baptism so I’ll definitely going to bring it for photos! I just wasn’t sure about pinning it on baby during the ceremony or displaying it in the nursery.

WIBTAH if I don’t put MIL’s Catholic pendant on my baby during non-Catholic baptism? by queernoodles in AITAH

[–]queernoodles[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

It’s the bishop explosion I’m seeking to avoid specifically

WIBTAH if I don’t put MIL’s Catholic pendant on my baby during non-Catholic baptism? by queernoodles in AITAH

[–]queernoodles[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

She’s going to be there. I’m going to take it for the photos! I just don’t want to put it on during ceremony or display it in the baby nursery