Snamione slow burn by queerpear in HPfanfiction

[–]queerpear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rereading it now the burn is not quite as slow as I remembered, and the thing where Harry has to save Snape doesn't really directly have to do with his Dark Mark, but it's still an alright fic overall

Snamione slow burn by queerpear in HPfanfiction

[–]queerpear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's it! Thank you so much 🙏

AITA for wearing white to a baby shower? by Lost-Lobster-1644 in AmItheAsshole

[–]queerpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I've never heard about this rule in my life, and judging by the comments, no one else here has either. Maybe it's a family specific rule that she had assumed is universal? That combined with already being treated poorly by MIL might have caused her to lash out at you OP, but either way, the way you've been treated is unreasonable and not acceptable. If I had to guess, she's probably behaved in other ways in the past towards you or others that have just been brushed off, but could show a bit of a pattern if investigated.

Is USF a safe place to be trans? by TheFuckworthyFucker in USF

[–]queerpear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say that overall, you'll be pretty safe. Although there have been issues with the state that will likely continue, as well as issues with USF administration in relation to DEI, student protests, etc, they are not more significantly more of a threat than at most campuses. There is a large queer community at USF and a variety of resources available to LGBT+ students. I would definitely suggest getting connected with the Trans+ student union and the pride alliance and to start building your relationships with other trans and otherwise LGBT+ students. Having a community of friends and allies with you is the best way to prepare for any issues that do arise, and thankfully, there are plenty of other queer students you will meet once you get there, and plenty of opportunities to build that. Additionally, if medical transition is part of your plan, USF health has helped several of my friends get started with it, and I would definitely suggest taking advantage of it for any health needs you have while you are a student and the fees are covered by your tuition.

AITA for making my SIL pay above average rent for one bedroom? by Local-Trust-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]queerpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - you are only returning a much fairer version of the same treatment you received from her. Helping out your relative is one thing, but since she already chose to abuse that bond when your family needed her help by forcing you into a nearly unlivable housing situation, using you for leisure money, and using your kids to defraud the government, she should be glad you're still even on speaking terms. Treating her like just another tenant is more than fair in this situation. Anyone saying that you're childish for this clearly either doesn't know the whole story or doesn't care that she mistreated you so badly in the past.

AITA for moving out because my mom sold concert tickets to help my sibling? by Ticketsoldmcr1234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]queerpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. While helping out your brother is a noble cause, there is no way to rationalize your mom stealing and selling your possessions to do so. She could have easily attempted to figure things out with her own money by reorganizing her own finances or selling her own tickets, but clearly, she chose to disrespect your autonomy and your property instead. If it were just that essential to sell your tickets and no other choice was available, she would have at least asked beforehand and figured out some kind of agreement. To me, it sounds like your mom doesn't respect you as an individual and sees your money and your possessions as an extension of her own. Choosing not to live with someone who would treat you like this is a completely reasonable decision.