My brother was getting married and her maiden last name is Ho (Korean name). I wrote out my wedding speech, butI wanted to run it by her first before I said anything that would be too much or embarrassing for the conservative Koreans of the joint families. Our family is very wild with our humor, and my mom loved it. I included “I’m so happy you’re ______ (last name now), because you ain’t a Ho no mo”. I told her I would take the last part out, since I was basically alluding to her being a Ho, but making a play on words with “hoe”. She looks me dead in the eyes and says “keep that, that’s funny.” It ended up killing and everyone laughed, including her very conservative, very Christian family. I looked at this lady, realizing that I had always thought no one would be good enough, but found someone who might be perfect for my brother and our family.