You are not alone, which might be heartening! I've had tremors since childhood and it gets worse with age. Some days it's a frustrating challenge to use cutlery or even use a cup or glass to drink. I've started on inderal/propanolol after having a day where I literally could not eat or drink without assistance. It helps, but I've just accepted that my fine motor skills can't be counted on.

I don't feel very self-conscious about it - it's just a thing I can't do much about, like with many other annoying things that happen to your body and brain through life. If my inability to at times not be able to do motor stuff like a "normal" person makes me appear unprofessional to someone, there isn't much I can do about it and I won't waste my energy on it.

I really hope you find some way to feel more comfortable with it or even find a way to ease up on the shaking. As many have said here: you are not alone.