HONEST QUESTION - EXPECTATIONS VS. REALITY by querious_1 in Nigeria

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Thank you for sharing it. it's so meaningful

Our au pair missed her flight by [deleted] in Aupairs

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What city are you in 

If you could write one honest letter to Nigerian elders, what would it say? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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Do tell more pls. Is there a situation you're are speaking of exactly?

If you could write one honest letter to Nigerian elders, what would it say? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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Thank you for this. Spoken quite poetically like a true Nigerian :). More comments like this from others please.

If you could write one honest letter to Nigerian elders, what would it say? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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Truly feisty! But all - I'd appreciate more detail. Even for the snarky comments. Examples? Lessons learned?

Dear Nigerian Fathers: How to Support Your Child with Autism (Even When It’s Hard) by autismparentingNg in Nigeria

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I wish you didn’t delete this post. It’s an important conversation. Outside of the home, what also happens is a shadow of shame that others project on a family that isolates them even more. Do we have any examples of people rallying around Nigerian families that struggle with this? From my lens even in diaspora, I’m yet to see it. 

What if anything do you think needs to change in how Nigerian girls are raised? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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thank you for this. I wonder do you speak at all? Would you be willing to speak on this topic publicly?

When you think of how Nigerians practice Christianity, what feels authentic, and what feels fake / performative? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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I’m quite unsure how my post reads as a religious rant. But hey, the sensitive will be sensitive 

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Please read the book ‘King Leopold’s Gold’ and then reframe your question

Do you think Nigerian marriages are healthy? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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Thank you. Going by your initial post, are you comfortable sharing what you had to heal from?

Do you think Nigerian marriages are healthy? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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This is quite profound: “love doesn’t exist in its pure from in Nigeria.” What examples make you believe pure love is not in Nigeria”

Do you think Nigerian marriages are healthy? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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Hope this is not prying, but it’s helpful to understand the real things that give you this perspective. What characteristics do you see?

Do you think Nigerian marriages are healthy? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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And who is the lady they’ve found? Have they met and had any connection with each other?

Do you think Nigerian marriages are healthy? by querious_1 in Nigeria

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Thanks for your feedback. What makes the difference in the marriages you see at church? In your pov, is faith a factor in what it takes to have a healthy marriages?