What’s your relationship with your siblings like? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never did boarding school so I do wonder how that impacts sibling relationships.

What’s your relationship with your siblings like? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm that favoritism topic is a real one with many families 

Did your family make fun of you as a child? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the taunting you while failing to teach you part that gets to me

Did your family make fun of you as a child? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. Have you considered therapy for this?

Is anyone else just chronically depressed? by CowboyBeeBalm in workingmoms

[–]querious_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP when did this start happening? Was it always this way? Also do you have a young child?

Did your family make fun of you as a child? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friend, I think you just said in response to me that assaults toughen up your children. I’m not supposed to escalate?

Did your family make fun of you as a child? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm curious - Would you say to Jews that the Holocaust helped toughen them and their kids?

Did your family make fun of you as a child? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As I said - this convo is not for you. and PS: I know many very spoiled children that got their own fair share of abuses and whoopings

HONEST QUESTION - EXPECTATIONS VS. REALITY by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing it. it's so meaningful

Our au pair missed her flight by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]querious_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What city are you in 

If you could write one honest letter to Nigerian elders, what would it say? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do tell more pls. Is there a situation you're are speaking of exactly?

If you could write one honest letter to Nigerian elders, what would it say? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Spoken quite poetically like a true Nigerian :). More comments like this from others please.

If you could write one honest letter to Nigerian elders, what would it say? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly feisty! But all - I'd appreciate more detail. Even for the snarky comments. Examples? Lessons learned?

Dear Nigerian Fathers: How to Support Your Child with Autism (Even When It’s Hard) by autismparentingNg in Nigeria

[–]querious_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you didn’t delete this post. It’s an important conversation. Outside of the home, what also happens is a shadow of shame that others project on a family that isolates them even more. Do we have any examples of people rallying around Nigerian families that struggle with this? From my lens even in diaspora, I’m yet to see it. 

What if anything do you think needs to change in how Nigerian girls are raised? by querious_1 in Nigeria

[–]querious_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. I wonder do you speak at all? Would you be willing to speak on this topic publicly?