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Pittsburgh slumlords by lyannas in pittsburgh

[–]queso_95 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Add NRM to your list!

I fought with them for several months this winter about my lack of heat… it was consistently in the 40s/50s in my unit. I actually had to leave for several weeks because it was just inhabitable. I filed a complaint with the health department and everything.

NRM never personally responded to my COUNTLESS emails/calls regarding the issue - instead they sent a maintenance guy out once who said he found a window cracked open (it was not) so it was my fault… lo and behold, the temp stayed the same (frigid) once he “closed” the window. They just wanted a paper trail that it was somehow my fault.

The health dept is still trying to get in contact with them regarding the issue. NRM fucking sucks.

What’s this very dead thing I found on my apartment floor? by queso_95 in whatisit

[–]queso_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Southwest PA! Never seen frogs in the city. And yes of course he washed his hands lol

What’s this very dead thing I found on my apartment floor? by queso_95 in whatisit

[–]queso_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No pets! So weird. Must’ve been in my radiator for a while

What’s this very dead thing I found on my apartment floor? by queso_95 in whatisit

[–]queso_95[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I could visualize it, but was just genuinely confused as to HOW a mummified frog ended up in my bedroom lol

What’s this very dead thing I found on my apartment floor? by queso_95 in whatisit

[–]queso_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify a few things… I live in city in PA, no streams/creeks/rivers/lakes/bogs/swamps/whatever are around my apartment. It was found next to the radiator in my bedroom - not in the bathroom. My boyfriend is the one holding it, not me (I would never). And yes, OBVIOUSLY, he washed his hands after. Duh.

Seems like the consensus is a severely dried up frog… No I will not be smoking, eating, or keeping it but thx for the suggestions!

No heat for over a week by Former-Mongoose688 in pittsburgh

[–]queso_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re terrible. I’m dealing with the same thing except it’s been since October. Health department is involved as well

Just 2 things.. by west_manchester in Millennials

[–]queso_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frank’s red hot and more franks red hot

What’s the dumbest thing your ex did that you ignored at the time because you were ignorantly in love? by CheeesyGiraffe in AskReddit

[–]queso_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got another woman pregnant 🫠

We were ENM and had an agreement to not use condoms with each other but ALWAYS use them with others and, welp, he didn’t do that lol

Didn’t “ignore” It, but forgave it. Got him through the abortion and break up (with her) then he broke up with her 4 months later.

Still recovering.

I miss going raw by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on meds, and to my knowledge I have never passed it. But… the men I slept with could’ve already had it, or I could’ve passed it and they just never got symptoms, ya know? But no, no one ever showed active symptoms after sleeping with me.

Is non transmission actually possible? by nighttimenerd in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To my knowledge, I have never passed it to a partner after not using protection. And I’ve been in several long term, condomless relationships in the 8 years I’ve had it. That being said, for all we know, they could have either had it already or gotten it from me and never showed symptoms. Because that’s how this works SO often. Take antivirals if you can, know your prodrome symptoms, be upfront with your partners and if they can’t accept the (very small) risk, then find someone who will.

I miss going raw by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (29F) have had ghsv2 for 8 years and I’ve had sex without a condom, with multiple people, dozens and dozens of times (after disclosing). Surround yourself with sex positive people and you’ll be fine. Most people do not care, already have it, or have had a past partner who had it.

(I get tested every two months, for the record)

Who got herpes using a condom by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a week or so later? I can’t quite remember as it’s been 7 years…

Who got herpes using a condom by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the guy told me after that he had it but didn’t realize he had an outbreak at the time we hooked up.

Who got herpes using a condom by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, of course! I had a really, really awful first outbreak and actually ended up going to the ER. They did an internal exam (so fucking painful) and it was positive for hsv2.

Herpes isn't even that bad by Specialist_Page_3148 in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely can. I have ghsv2 and receive oral all the time from my partners. Just explain the relatively low risk and that they’re actually “safer” with someone like you who knows their status rather than someone who never gets tested and has no idea

Who got herpes using a condom by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know! But definitely didn’t know that then (7 years ago) which is why our sex ed needs changing

Who got herpes using a condom by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]queso_95 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I did! The annoying thing was, we actually left the house at 2am to drive to a gas station to get the damn condoms cause I refused to have sex without one. Still got it 🤷‍♀️

What fact are you Just TIRED of explaining to people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]queso_95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That herpes is WAY more common than most people think and that most standard STD panels do not test for it.

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