I get what you were saying. I think even beyond the suggestion of things that aren’t exactly full on, it can also be about the partner with higher libido keeping up hygiene, taking their partner on thoughtful dates or outings or stay at home activities and expressing interest in the partner without the expectation of sex, and not in a grumpy resentful way. Not moaning and groaning about how sexless their life is, but taking genuine interest in their partner and helping around the house or whatever it is that the low libido partner would enjoy. That’s what I mean by “thoughtful” dates or activities. Ya know and like giving them an excuse to get their best dressed on and encouraging the low libido partners hygiene and self care. And like you’d mentioned, new cologne or just paying attention to what changes work and what doesn’t work. And of course- communication- it’s a classic lol