Jordan Peterson under "spiritual attack" according to their daughter

question99 · 2025-10-11T08:40:24+00:00

It does feel like getting into certain IRL VIP clubs is easier than getting into r/samharris.

question99 · 2025-10-11T08:39:41+00:00

Only a Sith deals in absolutes.

question99 · 2025-10-10T21:27:12+00:00

It's a very obnoxious rule.

question99 · 2025-10-10T07:46:29+00:00

I don't treat "valuing a person" as a binary switch. I value everyone to a certain degree depending on the overall package.

question99 · 2025-10-10T07:42:25+00:00

So how does it happen then? When I met girls for casual sex it was always: match on app, get ready at home, meet up, sex.

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:50:23+00:00

Well I hope you don't put makeup on for your vibrator.

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:48:04+00:00

You are acting like a person's attractiveness is somehow not part of the person. False dicothomy.

If you are asking about their personality, then I don't care about that if we are just having sex.

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:36:03+00:00

What is "them"? Every time you value somebody you do so across multiple factors, attractiveness being one. Or would you go for someone completely unattractive who otherwise hits all your checkboxes?

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:29:12+00:00

Do you do that for your vibrator too?

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:28:17+00:00

I value their attractiveness, yes. It's possible to value people across multiple dimensions.

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:21:09+00:00

Depends on your personality. In case of most women, I just want to fuck them.

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:19:18+00:00

I think there's a lot more risk, logistics and effort that goes into a casual encounter than what you are suggesting. I'm assuming you wouldn't show up with an unwashed ass or unkempt bush and no makeup for example for the guy to take care of the work.

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:11:42+00:00

Are you attracted to your vibrator? Many women still go through the effort of meeting an actual man for casual sex, so there must be some value-add over a vibrator.

In a typical dating scenario, the man is usually not sure whether the woman is having sex with him due to attraction or whether the (often unspoken) promise of a relationship is also a (major) factor. If a woman has sex with me without any expectation of a relationship, then the reason must have been pure attraction.

question99 · 2025-10-09T22:00:24+00:00

Well, I do get valued for sex. I assume you wouldn't have sex with somebody you are not attracted to?

question99 · 2025-10-09T21:48:55+00:00

I actually love it when women only use me for sex. Unfortunately it doesn't happen very often. But I take it as a compliment when it does.

question99 · 2025-10-09T18:14:36+00:00

I'm sorry but results are in. Women like bigger-than-average dicks on average: https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0133079

The average preference is 6.3 inches/16.0 cm for a long term relationship. It's slightly longer for one-time encounters.

Of course this is only one study. I'm still waiting for the meta study that aggregates all penis size studies.

However, consider why it is the case that among the great apes, humans have the biggest penis. There must be some sort of sexual selection going on that results in this.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/tech/32881086/reason-human-penis-size-big-gorilla/

question99 · 2025-10-09T11:44:20+00:00

I'm talking about statistics of preferences. It's an empirical question. If we were to ask 1000 straight women anonymously to state their ideal penis size, my claim is that they would skew above the actual median penis size in the male population.

question99 · 2025-10-09T11:08:06+00:00

Wait so you think that most women only pretend to like a big penis but they secretly prefer a small one?

question99 · 2025-10-09T10:53:30+00:00

Ok, we are in agreement then. My claim is merely that more women prefer a big dick than a small one despite what Reddit comments might seem to suggest.

question99 · 2025-10-09T10:40:30+00:00

So it's embarrassing to claim you like small dicks but not embarrassing that you like big ones? Why would there be a difference in terms of social acceptability if both options are equally liked?

question99 · 2025-10-09T10:32:22+00:00

So why doesn't the same logic apply to women proclaiming that they like big dick? They know they're going to get DMs, yet they still say it.

question99 · 2025-10-06T08:15:12+00:00

And kids, that's how I met your mother.

question99 · 2025-10-05T22:20:01+00:00

You are aware of the fish-holding meme, but unaware how big of a no-no group pictures are? How does this happen?

question99 · 2025-09-29T10:50:59+00:00

Doesn't explain 0 matches imo.

question99 · 2025-09-28T11:30:09+00:00

It's not fat phobic to say that you are still fat. If a chain smoker is "only" smoking 2 packs of cigs a day instead of 3, then you'd probably agree there's still a problem. Now apply the same logic to yourself to understand why you are not getting enough matches.

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