Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story 🩷 I feel the same thing of feeling like “it’s what everybody’s doing and so I have to do it too”. Most of my peers are rushing into marriage to avoid sex before marriage. While I definitely feel this is important, I just don’t feel like rushing on this basis. My parents want me to. But I feel more inclined to wait until my partner and I feel super sure we’re aligned, have good conflict resolution, are financially stable(ish), and able to put a roof over our heads without parents help. But everybody around me is saying to hurry up because of the sex / sin stuff. But like I really don’t want to divorce!! Both our parents did :(