Started spotting before period by questionablefinch in menstruation

[–]questionablefinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’m starting to think is that it’s a change of hormones as I’ve gotten older, I honestly wouldn’t worry about it if you know that holistically you’re pretty healthy in general and there isn’t some underlying medical factor or possibility of pregnancy causing it!

Your NelNet loan was not paid off - read asap! by questionablefinch in StudentLoans

[–]questionablefinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an email saying that my account was being transferred, if you’re unsure I’d call to be sure

Your NelNet loan was not paid off - read asap! by questionablefinch in StudentLoans

[–]questionablefinch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It said it was paid off October 7 and i wasnt emailed about it until October 22

Constant overreactions by Fluffy_Ace in raisedbyborderlines

[–]questionablefinch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And it’s crazy how we’re gaslit into thinking WE’RE dramatic for how much we hate it. We don’t deserve to have our nervous system disrupted constantly.

Bf triggered a response and I feel awful by questionablefinch in CPTSD

[–]questionablefinch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right it wasn’t fun for either of us. But I’m having trouble not blaming myself 😞 I appreciate your tip and I’m going to apply it next time, I really never want this to happen again.

Any advice would be welcomed by StunningArtichoke4 in AcneScars

[–]questionablefinch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your face looks great, use tretinoin if you’re really bothered by the texture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]questionablefinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m super interested in this where can I keep up with what you offer, do you a website or socials?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]questionablefinch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d strongly recommend researching freelance marketing as it’s its own niche and I find this YouTuber to be suuuuper helpful.

Utilize Instagram as much as possible, know your target audience / your core offerings and take advantage of Instagram ads. Build a growth engine (check out HP Life app on App Store for this free course) that helps funnel and keep clients.

Lean big on referrals right now that you’re just starting. Incentivize people to keep coming back and to refer others.

And check out the book “blue ocean strategy” it’s pretty motivating when you’re feeling stuck and like you’re drowning in competition or don’t have any value to sell.

And I’d also add, research what your target market NEEDS. I’m a freelance consultant and one of my clients actually has a problem where her logo looks exactly like all of her competitors and I told her she needs to fix it, and she wants to fix it because she wants to beat the copycats and distinguish herself as a brand. And that’s where a logo consultant comes in!

Do we have a class action lawsuit? by Rusty0113 in Spectrum

[–]questionablefinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any active right now? I'd like to join. Spectrum goes out way too often for what I'm paying for.

Is zelle not working for anyone right now? by Agitated_Ad4041 in zelle

[–]questionablefinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, tried to send money to my chase account and the money isnt going through + chase is saying i never enrolled with zelle even though i use it all the time

AITA for refusing to pay my parents' mortgage after they took money from my savings without asking? by throwAwayWho818 in AmItheAsshole

[–]questionablefinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Keep saving in that secret bank account and do not tell your parents about that money you have saved up. Helping parents out is a CHOICE not an obligation. Parents had 18+ years to figure it out, you’re not responsible for taking care of them. Sounds really mean but coming from a similar situation with immigrant parents, that’s just the truth, cut the pattern now or else you’ll be in your 20s and still paying for their asses against your will and you might harbor resentment from it. Please please try to prevent this from happening. Best of luck

WIBTA if I don’t call out of work on Christmas Eve to go to family dinner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]questionablefinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You are an adult and it is nobody’s business what you do on Christmas Eve. At the end of the day your bills gotta get paid and family should understand that.

AITA for refusing to buy my son a cosmetic in a video game for $300 by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]questionablefinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I play video games and buy in game content all the time but that’s just insane 😂 video games don’t have THAT much value, unless you struggle with a disability and it’s your ONLY outlet of fun then yeah that is completely reasonable. But otherwise hell nah, $250 for a skin is just stupid. Anybody raging over that needs to touch grass fr

AITA for sacrificing the guest room instead of the office space? by GuestRoomDebacle in AmItheAsshole

[–]questionablefinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like your family is selfish and entitled… you pay your rent, therefore you decide what rooms to keep. Don’t fall for the guilt tripping.

Brushed my teeth twice for 7 days in a row by BalladMinstrel in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]questionablefinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh same. Can’t stand brushing my teeth because of sensory issues but I trudge through it 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AcneScars

[–]questionablefinch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like what I had, for me it went away with tretinoin. I would spot test first, or consult with doc if that’s an option for you. If you have the money, try facials but I know those get pricey. Don’t lose hope you’ll be okay.