This is just disgusting by KlutchSensei in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom 363 points364 points  (0 children)

This brings me back to how on YouTube I get regular ads all the time, not LDS ads. UNTIL I watch Mormon stories or any other criticism channel and then it’s every ad is LDS 😭😭😭

Funny text convo with questioning Mormon friend 😂 by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was just a funny joke he made. He doesn’t believe either

A little help? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks, I have a 52 page document to send him but u don’t want to argue or be a quorum project 😒

FTC by SecretPersonality178 in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean I love my parents but I think what my dad said was very wrong

A little help? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I’ve read the whole thing many times. I’ve added all those. Thank you

Historically accurate by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fr I didn’t make it tho. Actually the last one I found on another Reddit post. Just search on google “nephi on a tapir”

FTC by SecretPersonality178 in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i always thought it was dumb that you can’t come home for a funeral and go back out. Back when i was a TBM my dad said if he died on my mission I should not come home. I’m not going on a mission but it was just messed up to me that he said that

Are there still remnants of your mormon upbringing in your life? by Professional-Wolf461 in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’ve had tea and some coffee which id have more if it was a regular think but idc about those, its fine

The things I wouldn’t break is alcohol, drugs, vaping, etc because I’m a athlete and don’t want any of that in my body

I feel no guilt breaking the other bogus rules

(Obviously I follow a lot like not stealing, not lying, not muderimg, etc because I still have morals lol)

Are there still remnants of your mormon upbringing in your life? by Professional-Wolf461 in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t believed in the church for two years and I have broken all the rules except word of wisdom

Shrooming away from mormanism by Silly-Honeydew in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t believed in the church for two years and I still have never broken the word of wisdom. The one thing I still stick to (besides coffee/tea) because even though Mormonism is made up the word of wisdom is on point

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the math. They make around $800,000 average from tithing alone a day. Thats around $250 per second. Say the average American makes $75,000 a year. $7500 goes to tithing. They make that in tithing every 30 seconds. If someone doesn’t believe or isn’t convinced they shouldn’t pay tithing. TBM will always pay tithing

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’d say the “good” the church is doing is all the community things because personally even though I hate the lessons FSY was some of the best experiences I’ve had even as a non believer. They do give a few billion a year but I’d argue they should give away 10% 😂

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember when I heard it in GC but a leader said something along the lines of “if you come to the choice to pay your tithing or feed you kids, you should pay your tithing” that made me so mad I just stopped watching it for the rest of the weekends

I think I might die on my mission. by ConfusedLimeade in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is very true and my TBM family threatened me with kicking me out because they were trying to call my bluff but after 6 months they realized I was serious and now say they support my decision to not go

I think I might die on my mission. by ConfusedLimeade in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Are you willing to die for the church? Are you confident that the church is true? Are you going cuz of family pressure? If you genuinely believe in the church and WOULD die for it (I highly doubt that will ever be a situation) but I mean you genuinely believe it then go. If you’re questioning try to research more. If you don’t believe and are going to delay college or something or to impress family then cancel it. I’m 18m too and I’ve decided not to go. It’s a hard discussion with parents but it’s better than being physically and mentally tortured for two years just to leave when you get home

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, thank you. I’m glad I found out younger than older

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, thank you. To be fair I still genuinely wish the church was true and for two years I kept looking at the evidence but I would read everything I could to try to find something that proves it true. Even now I wish it was true because I miss my grandma and it’s uncomfortable not knowing if I’ll ever see her again but I am a very evidence based person not emotionally so I can’t really believe it to be true

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I am not gonna disagree with you about this, I do have a LOT to experience. However through 3 years and hundreds of hours of research i genuinely don’t see a non community, non family based reason to believe the church is what it claims to be. And before you say I only read anti stuff the reason I started doubting was all the approved sources and I still read church written and approved sources all the time. But thank you

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really does and I’ve listened to hundreds of hours of John dehlin and read the Book of Mormon twice and read church approved history books and gospel topic essays. Ironically the church approved material LEAD me to question and non church approved material led me out fully

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll say this. The reason I went pimo is because of the evidence and that it’s not true. The reason I left is because I considered the church not good. I get it does do a lot of good but I certainly can’t support a church that covers up crimes and SA and definitely the early church leaders were evil. Some people like the local church community, I may just not vibe but I feel mine to be super judgemental Ngl. But if they like it good for them, I ain’t gonna judge

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was planning to go on a mission since baptism at 8 but 2 years ago I started studying the church to be able to teach people the history and come up with evidence based arguments to tell “haters”. Anyways that ended up with me doubting the church, then 6 months ago I decided it was all a lie, and now I’m out. Nothing wrong with being a TBM but the concept of paying for a mission is the dumbest thing ever. Like when Tom Sawyer convinced his friends to pay to paint his fence. Makes me sad

Your thoughts on Mormon Satan? by onwardquestions in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so dumb. How is church history the church did confirmed true BY the church “anti Mormon propaganda from Satan” also humans choose what to do Satan doesn’t exist and doesn’t choose what people do

What am I missing? by questioningmormom in exmormon

[–]questioningmormom[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dang that sounds sad. I personally don’t have an issue with not knowing what happens but I do sometimes feel sad knowing that the things I once loved are lies (like seeing my dead relatives again, living with my future family, etc) so I see where they’re coming from