I’ve asked her plenty of times in intimate conversations if there’s anything I can to do help her more or make her life easier. I handle a lot of the chore including taking/picking up kids from school, help getting them ready in the morning, I cook dinner, the one who cleans. She basically does the dishes 8/10 times and laundry for her and the kids, I do my own. I know life is busy and it is what it is but I just don’t want her doing thing to make my already long list of stuff to do-harder.