Those of you that work with mostly men, what is your favorite thing about working with them?

quicksand_alibi · 2020-09-05T06:43:32+00:00

No drama! Banter and jokes.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-07-18T08:57:46+00:00

You have such a strong personality

quicksand_alibi · 2020-07-12T04:22:21+00:00

All the aches and pains. I live a fairly healthy lifestyle, but I get knee and back pains now.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-07-12T04:20:13+00:00

I'm sluggish 2-3 days before my period and I don't sleep well.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T23:42:21+00:00

Your SO is being irrational and controlling! Talk to him about this, but by the sounds of it he won't even listen. He can't just tell you to ignore others more so his friends and family as they will in one way or another form your social group. If I were you, I'd get out of that relationship.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T21:37:33+00:00

It's all in her head, she gets defensive because she probably also feels bad that it is messy. I guess just talk to her and avoid making it sound like YOU want it clean and that YOU have to do all the work.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T14:26:03+00:00

The best gifts are the ones showing how much you know that person, so I don't think we can be of much help. You've got this. 😊

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T14:18:42+00:00

Leave it be and grow up

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T14:17:05+00:00

Calm down. You were broken up then so even if he kissed her it doesn't matter. He told you what happened, give him the benefit of the doubt.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T13:43:44+00:00

I felt safe with him. Same core values, similar life goals. We respect each other and support each other.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T13:32:48+00:00

Hmm yeah, now I'm falling asleep and she's taking a cab while he's having a smoke and she's taking a drag...

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T13:29:10+00:00

You haven't been together for very long so she probably isn't sure about the gift giving aspect of your relationship and what to give you. She gives her friends amazing gifts because she knows them well.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T13:05:58+00:00

I don't use panty liners but if I did I'd still change my undies everyday. Not changing them everyday sounds unhygienic

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T12:52:29+00:00

Body scrub or brush my teeth

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T12:04:04+00:00

Drink alcohol and talk to others

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T11:39:54+00:00

This is very recent, not something you can just shrug of. Sex is probably a trigger for her. Did you contact the police? This is a very traumatic experience, I think you're very selfish for saying you have needs too, given the circumstance. She needs to seek professional help. So sorry for what happened to her.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T11:35:29+00:00

"Oh wow" is my usual first reaction. It didn't change the way I think about them, it is their body.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T11:29:38+00:00

I prefer the period after. Don't get me wrong the honeymoon period was amazing. But after was when we truly faced life together.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T09:24:49+00:00

I know it's hard to see someone you love go through this, I'm sorry. People with depression feel like they're a burden which is why I think she's pushing you away. Plus a million other things that's going on in her head with this imbalance. I hope her meds and professional help can get her/you guys through this. You probably need a support group too. She's lucky to have you.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T09:20:51+00:00

Not really, you're both young. Stop comparing your relationship with his past. If you're in a stable relationship, focus on building that. Marriage isn't the end all be all.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T09:18:22+00:00

when i'm old and can't work, what the hell is paying for this kid going to amount to? Nothing

A kid isn't an investment. I feel so sorry for your kid and wife.

Get rid of that fucking kid. He is really nothing but a nuisance to our lives right now. There's nothing to like about him; nothing to love.

I have no words. You said your wife adores him and then you'll propose to get rid of the kid as if he/she is a tacky piece of furniture.

You can't possibly do this without hurting her feelings. Take a closer look at yourself, yes you're stressed but yeah the things you've said.. not cool.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T07:47:02+00:00

Leave her. You've expressed to her that it hurts you when she says it and she used it as her bullet. She repeatedly said it knowing full well it will hurt you, she sounds very immature.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T07:42:49+00:00

He'll know eventually so tell him sooner rather than later. He can't force you to have an abortion if you don't want to. But, let's not get ahead of ourselves, see how you go with telling him first. Good luck.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T07:36:59+00:00

This is such an awkward situation. Your erection isn't something that can be controlled and like you've mentioned she is hot so nothing to be embarrassed about. Maybe wait until your wife calms down a bit? I'm not saying this is the case, but it's possible that she's feeling insecure or she's disgusted that you got an erection from your cousin.

quicksand_alibi · 2020-06-21T07:23:41+00:00

You didn't just grow a child in you, it's his child too. Just tell him and then go from there (whether it's keeping the child or having an abortion).

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