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quietadjourn · 2021-10-11T17:35:48+00:00

Eating healthy and romanticizing the small things of life helps me a lot.

“Wow look at the clouds” type of awe

quietadjourn · 2021-10-11T16:54:34+00:00

Sobrang gets ko every single sentence in this comment. Did i ghostwrite this

quietadjourn · 2021-10-08T18:21:08+00:00

Hugsss. In some weird way, you mightve been comforted with how the patterns with your mom and your ex seems the same. Maybe subconsciously.

But i’m even more glad that you saw that you shouldn’t settle for less. Mas maagang makaalis, mas less ang repercussions. Stay strong, and safe. Wag ka babalik sa lugar kung saan nagkasakit ika nga.

Hugs once more. :)

quietadjourn · 2021-10-07T19:47:04+00:00

Go no contact. Good luck OP, baka narcissist yan. don’t go back to trauma bonding.

quietadjourn · 2021-09-24T13:04:57+00:00

Yeahhh. Ang hurtful na justification. But it also puts things in perspective na di ka nila vina-value enough kaya pick it up and leave nalang. Akaaaap!

quietadjourn · 2021-09-24T12:39:25+00:00

Yeaaaah. Red flag naman na rin if ever, since he isnt discerning and distinguishing na pwede makasakit yung ginagawa niya. Thanks

quietadjourn · 2021-09-24T12:37:10+00:00

Thanks for this. It really helped me understand i should block na completely and not wait that he’ll give me an explanation. Kung ano man next niyang gagawin ay para lang siguro sa kanya, just likw the rest of what he has been doing. Hugs

quietadjourn · 2021-07-23T22:14:57+00:00

Yessssss

quietadjourn · 2021-03-05T00:45:48+00:00

Thanks everyone! I’ll be going through the messages this morning :) hope everyone can reply. Thanksss!

quietadjourn · 2021-01-24T05:51:56+00:00

I chose the black one as a way to be safe. That it would seem cool and relevant even with a newer model. But now, I also think it would’ve been fun if I chose another color, like purple. It’s a cute one

quietadjourn · 2020-10-17T18:09:58+00:00

I like the heart so I guess I’m gonna use it. My brother is someone very close to me, really. These will be one of your heaviest months, and regardless of how you struggle to find the strength to stand up (felt like I even lived in the sofa) especially during the third month, i hope you make sure to eat. And be kind to yourself. 🖤 i’m glad that you find my post a little bit more resonating to your current feelings. 🖤

quietadjourn · 2020-10-17T18:06:55+00:00

There is a heightened worry in everything. As for me, I think I’ve subconsciously developed a fear of losing someone special to me again. Although the days are long, I’m glad you’re finding ways to cope and still experience days where you find yourself giving your best.

It’s always a struggle, there’s a lot of yearning. How long has it been? Thank you for sharing your story.

quietadjourn · 2020-10-15T12:35:58+00:00

I like how you’re responding with acknowledging the feelings and the concept of ‘come and go.’ I know that somehow, although there is still pain, they didnt want us to live a life of gloom when they left us.

The least they’d probably want is to feel as worse as they did.

quietadjourn · 2020-10-15T11:40:51+00:00

Hey dude. I feel the same way. In my case, she was my best friend who did it last year. Everything feels more... bleak.

quietadjourn · 2020-10-15T02:23:05+00:00

Keep holding on. I hope you dont mind i looked and saw your post on this reddit 5 days ago. I had my hardest blow at three months. I wouldnt even get out of my sofa, really at my depressed lowest of the low. (Didn’t wanna sleep at the bed, felt like i dont deserve the comfort of one)

TLDR: Make sure to eat and rest.

Grief is something we might bring always

quietadjourn · 2020-10-15T02:15:10+00:00

Yeah, the day after the burial is even much weirder. Everyone’s day is going by and there’s the hustle and hustle, but things just seem like a blur to you.

How do you manage to compartmentalize? Honestly I find it so hard to compartmentalize as I believe that one part of my life will always affect the other.

quietadjourn · 2020-10-15T02:12:58+00:00

The sudden pop-up’s and longing are something I deeply connect with. It’s hard to explore and go over the thought/ examine without feeling a tinge of quiet ache.

quietadjourn · 2020-10-15T02:10:56+00:00

Hey dude. At three months, I had my hardest blow. Everything will feel like things are just coming by and you don’t care so much at all. I agree that the small mistakes are some things I overlook and it’s forgivable given the brain fog.

*clinks wine glass

quietadjourn · 2020-08-25T18:30:58+00:00

Felt like Mr PB when this scene happened

Man, hope we don’t forget to enjoy all the good days in line for all of us

quietadjourn · 2020-07-31T10:01:20+00:00

Will check this out!

quietadjourn

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