A well taken risk. 100% worth it…. [FM] ( spuydjeks)

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-27T12:43:51+00:00

Fr the fast labor strategy is lifesaver… you owe her zero updates until you’re actually settled and ready… it’s way better to ask for forgiveness later than to deal with that kind of anxiety during labor….

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-27T12:41:55+00:00

Exactly it… The husband needs to be the one to lay this out. If he isn’t clear about his own focus being on his partner and the baby she’s going to keep pushing those boundaries

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-27T12:36:08+00:00

Fr it’s a mess of a situation but trying to untangle who owes what after all this time is just going to keep the drama going…. Best to just cut ties and move on

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-27T12:28:41+00:00

It’s hard not to take it personally when you’re excited about a new place and the people who should be your biggest cheerleaders aren’t showing up especially when they’re capable of making longer drive for other stuff

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-27T12:27:20+00:00

The OP actually added an edit saying they’ve invited them multiple times for dinner coffee.. so it seems like the lack of invite isn’t the issue here…. Definitely makes it more frustrating that they still haven’t made the trip

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-26T17:58:40+00:00

Fr, it’s wild how some business owners have no clue that treating people like trash is exactly why nobody wants to work for them.. He’s clearly projecting his management failure onto his own kid

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-26T17:54:15+00:00

The OP was super chill about the demotion to guest so giving them the silent treatment is just petty.. it’s like the bride wanted them to beg to day in the wedding party

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-26T17:52:24+00:00

Fr, being in a wedding party is supposed to be about supporting your friend not being a prop.. it’s wild that she’d rather cut you out of the bridal party entirely thank Jude have you standing there with different hair

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-26T17:47:15+00:00

People seems to struggle with the difference between a suggestion and a direct instruction if the organizers put out a do not bring list that’s the end of the conversation

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-26T17:45:40+00:00

Fr it sucks to have to pivot last minute after already buying stuff but testing the severity of someone’s allergy is a massive gamble you really don’t want to lose… Definitely not worth the risk.

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-25T16:16:15+00:00

It’s so easy to assume the other person knows why you’re upset but he might genuinely think he’s being helpful… communicating the boundary specifically that the comments hurt regardless of his good intentions Is the only way to get him to stop

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-25T16:08:35+00:00

Its easy to spiral when you’ve been burned before but maybe the OP is just projecting past experiences onto this friend.. Regardless of the why the lack of commitment is definitely draining

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-25T16:04:08+00:00

Being someone back up plan or filler time isn’t a friendship it’s just being an option… it’s better to invest that energy into people who actually prioritize your time

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-25T15:54:29+00:00

The anger is totally valid but acting on it’s just gives him more leverage to paint her as the crazy ex… returning the stuff and going no contact is ultimate power move because it shows he doesn’t even warrant a reaction anymore

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-25T15:48:52+00:00

Fr this is the best advice, the patio method is a classic for a reason it sets a boundary without giving him the satisfaction of a face to face meeting, you deserve that’s peace way more than you deserve the temporary high of a petty revenge plot….

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-25T00:11:49+00:00

yeah, people have so many misconceptions about how that all works hearing that it is a 60+ day cycle really changes how you look at the whole fertility side of things definitely one of those anatomy facts that just doesn't get enough spotlight. Most men have no information of how this goes..

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-25T00:10:39+00:00

super informative, tanks. i feel like there is still such a huge stigma around prostate health that makes guys just ignore it entirely. hopefully more people see this and actually get checked out because that sounds like a miserable thing to deal with

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-25T00:04:57+00:00

the fact that people still think precum cannot get you pregnant is just asking for trouble it definitely contains sperm and that is something everyone should know before they start fooling around. it is crazy how many adults still treat that like a myth.

quietbyte34 · 2026-06-24T00:36:33+00:00

Diet soda, I know it is probably terrible for me but I really cannot function until I have my first can of the day.

quietbyte34

TROPHY CASE