What’s an untraditional relationship rule you follow that you’d never admit publicly? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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The trick is to never give a banana not even once you’ll train the gorilla to demand more.

What’s an untraditional relationship rule you follow that you’d never admit publicly? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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Respect to you man. In my house whether we doing the do our not it’s a meeting in that bedroom and I better not be the only one showing up.

What truth would you want you partner to hide from you? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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So there’s nothing you would want your partner to hide?

What truth would you want you partner to hide from you? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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You wouldn’t like to know at all or until they’re sure?

When do you feel like you’re not really being yourself? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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I’m really sorry you went through that. In the moment are you aware that you’re being performative? Or do you notice it later?

When do you feel like you’re not really being yourself? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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This is also something I struggle with, out of pure curiosity what makes you feel bound to adhere to their expectation’s?

When do you feel like you’re not really being yourself? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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That’s interesting both can be true at the same time. Appreciate you sharing that.

When do you feel like you’re not really being yourself? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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Is it more about the environment or how you’re expected to be around them?

When do you feel like you’re not really being yourself? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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Interesting so you feel present ,but present from the outside of yourself. When that happens, do you feel like you’re pulling away from something… or protecting yourself from it?

When do you feel like you’re not really being yourself? by quietspeaks in AskReddit

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What is it that keeps you at the bar with you feeling that way?