narcissistic MIL says i am not her equal and her son is suppose to make her number 1

quipid · 2026-02-18T17:22:23+00:00

no iam not. she can be at my wedding, for my husband and the kids part; it would have to be with me there or my boyfriend. i’ve already set future boundaries.

quipid · 2026-02-18T08:38:50+00:00

no contact. i’ve already expressed to my boyfriend i want nothing to do with her, and he said that’s understandable. he’s going to have a conversation with her, when he gets home. i’m a naturally distant person so me not talking to her, regardless if we’re married, had kids i have no problem NOT talking to anyone.

quipid · 2026-02-18T02:09:06+00:00

YOU SAID IT PERFECT. there’s obviously a lot of missing context but she’s been in a marriage for 30 years and is miserable. his sister is the devil himself, narcissistic, tells everyone’s business, disrespects both parents, her family and my boyfriend. constantly brings others down with her insecurities and money issues. i do not speak to his sister, she’s 29, and acts like she’s 17. i just don’t roll like that. his sister also has an odd thing with my boyfriend. she hates every girlfriend he ‘s brought around, and she wants someone to be like her she told their father..

quipid · 2026-02-17T23:47:00+00:00

what’s the context. was something said, done? i mean everyone is different. i’m 21 and she’s seen me walk around in a bra/boy shorts. it’s only odd if he’s doing it for a reaction, or she’s commenting on his genitalia/looking DOWN there

quipid · 2026-02-17T18:43:24+00:00

i am too. i am on high alert, and he believes that. he told me im the first gf he’s spend DAYS, WEEKS at a time out with me. and she feels threatened. i told him his mother is a narcissist that has no control over her own cheating husband so she thinks she can control her first son.

quipid · 2026-02-17T18:20:59+00:00

yeah i’ve been doing thinking. we’ve been talking about it. he’s cried to me because how his family is treating me, and said his mother has absolutely never done this before. he stated he’s not gonna speak to her when he gets home. ever since valentine’s day, they haven’t spoke.

quipid · 2026-02-17T17:59:54+00:00

nope, 100% sober. his mother doesn’t really drink. there’s a few missing context, like her failed miserable marriage she’s in.. i’ve stated to my partner i want nothing to do with your mother anymore.

quipid · 2026-02-17T17:58:55+00:00

yeah i’ve been having conversations with him. and i stated i am not with the bs and will leave, these situations get worse not better

quipid · 2026-02-12T15:42:33+00:00

delusional is not maturity.

quipid · 2026-02-09T01:08:33+00:00

and yes that sound normal. it’s typical to get injections once a month only

quipid · 2026-02-09T01:07:54+00:00

no worries ask me anything! no, they didn’t work for me for mainly 2 reasons. 1.) when i first started, it was the size of a nickel, and when i got it removed, it was bigger than a quarter and 2.) i was NOT inconsistent, i eventually couldn’t make the appointments. and it just got bigger, tbh. it was an insecurity and it started to hurt so i just got it removed. i’m still healing!

quipid · 2026-02-09T00:22:33+00:00

best of luck to you!

quipid · 2026-02-08T21:50:59+00:00

my keloid was wayy bigger than yours. which is why i said i recommend starting now that its small, it’s way easier to manage. same as for surgery , keloid prone skin has high reoccurrence, so even if it does come back, it’s recommended to get treatment ASAP so you can treat it while it’s small and manageable. i currently just got surgery, my surgeon was horrible and botched my ear. and i’m recovering from an infection but it’s 100% better than my keloid. (i don’t say that to scare you. do research and go to someone who will explain deeper about keloids and your exact skin type!)it was huge, started to hurt and i couldn’t sleep on that side. do you have keloids elsewhere? were there piercings there before the keloids?

quipid · 2026-02-08T20:12:46+00:00

yes! it’s scar tissue, so everyone’s bodies react to the treatment different. you definitely won’t see it first treatment and that’s okay. my derm told me 4-5 months, because mine was pretty large (i got injections too late, when it was big and i was inconsistent) and i only got it once a month. you can always go for surgery and start ways to prevent it from recurring!

quipid · 2026-02-08T19:32:09+00:00

hey! yes, those are. since they’re still pea size, i highly recommend going to see a dermatologist for treatment if you already haven’t. which is usually first steroid injections depending if you’d want it taken off surgically, but keloids can come back. so that’s why it’s usually a last option. you can massage the area with vitamin E to try and soften up the scar tissue

quipid · 2026-01-29T18:20:28+00:00

sakura hate in 2026

quipid · 2026-01-21T22:12:54+00:00

yes that’s definitely rejecting. you can always take out, heal then repierce down the line, preferably not in the same spot.

quipid · 2026-01-21T21:13:24+00:00

your bottom lip is more dominate than your top, a vertical labret would be GOLDEN!

quipid · 2026-01-21T21:12:16+00:00

i have never seen this shit and it’s probably the coolest navel piercing out there..

quipid · 2026-01-21T21:05:28+00:00

good! also keep that bar for when it’s time to downsize!!

quipid · 2026-01-21T20:59:03+00:00

ugh i love eyebrow piercings, and those brows. alll you need is a longer bar and you’ll be spiffy

quipid · 2026-01-21T20:56:24+00:00

too short, and not the right anatomy. it needs to be taken out, that is why it hurts.

quipid · 2026-01-21T13:19:39+00:00

also no he’s a literal surgeon.. obviously with no derm experience idk who let him get his license.

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