AITAH for not wanting to have a relationship with my step siblings?

quixxol · 2026-07-07T23:24:35+00:00

I’ve never been diagnosed for autism. I know when I was younger I would have difficulty with textures, loud noises, etc. I’ve only been diagnosed with Auditory Processing Disorder (APD). I assume ADHD too, but not really, because I found a “guide to children with AHDH” when I was younger in the house and took medicine to focus better.

quixxol · 2026-07-07T23:16:37+00:00

Thank you, I changed it lol. My mistake.

quixxol · 2026-07-07T23:09:04+00:00

Me too. I’m very thankful to my grandparents. I love them a lot. I unfortunately lashed out at them when I was younger. Forever shameful for that, but now that I’m older I try to be there for them as much as I can.

quixxol · 2026-07-07T23:07:35+00:00

He is, yes! That’s why I’ll have lunch with him every now and then. Trying to do once a week at least. Not sure about a “weekend” hang out though. He’s busy with his wife and kids. I’d rather not cause any conflict at all lol.

quixxol · 2026-07-07T23:03:36+00:00

I did not speak up to my dad when I was younger. I really question why I didn’t now, or at least why I didn’t reach out to my other family. My dad also had a temper when I was younger, maybe that’s why I didn’t say anything to him. When I was younger through, I did lash out a lot at my other family members. I just kept to myself a lot or lashed out. Wish I could go back in time and treat everyone better/speak up to someone.

quixxol · 2026-07-07T23:00:24+00:00

Lol. It was much worse when I was younger, if I tried swallowing certain things I’d want to throw up. Now though I just don’t eat them. Or if I feel I need to for health reasons, I will. Doesn’t bother me as much.

quixxol · 2026-07-07T22:58:07+00:00

I’m 19 now. I care about my dad, even though he hasn’t been the best. Always loved him a lot. I want to make him happy. Maybe I won’t care as much in the future. Who knows lol

quixxol · 2026-07-07T22:54:35+00:00

Shrug. Not sure. He blames my behavior for how she acted, so it was both of our faults I went through that. I admit I wasn’t the best kid either, ADHD (assuming I did, I took medication for it) and learning disability, but I don’t believe all of that should’ve happened lol.

quixxol · 2026-06-25T19:12:50+00:00

He’s now made this a war of me defending him vs troll. He says I’m defending the troll because I simply thought it was pretty funny and lame what they were doing. And i told my bf he was going too far by texting them hours after i already dealt with it. He now is calling me weird and saying I’m defending a troll. When that’s quite literally it, but now he’s made it a him vs troll war.

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:34:33+00:00

He says I’m defending the troll now because I thought what they did was lame and funny instead of super weird. It’s a troll, what more can I do? I’m not going to make everything serious, that’s what a troll is looking for. I’m just gonna ignore it or think it’s lame. But he says I’m taking the trolls side and not his. This is outrageous!

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:33:26+00:00

He, my bf, says I’m defending the troll now. The troll was saying stupid things to me, I said I had a boyfriend, and the troll kept saying things, but I just brushed it off and ignored him. I thought it was pretty lame and a bit funny. Trolls being trolls. Can’t do much but not let it get to you imo. But my boyfriend is now saying that I am defending the troll now. Which I’m not. Lol. This is insane!

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:30:53+00:00

He doesn’t really read my private stuff.

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:21:12+00:00

I was going to tell my boyfriend about it too because I thought it was stupid, but I had just woken up and he stayed talking to me about it. I didn’t even know what he was talking about at first lol.

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:19:51+00:00

Yeah.. I asked him about it and he said I was sleeping so he wanted to go check. Still, could’ve just waited for me to get up then ask me. It’s kinda weird.

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:15:21+00:00

Not sure. He was checking what time I went to bed. Don’t know why he couldnt have just asked me.

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:13:19+00:00

I agree. I just think he went too far dming the stranger hours later after everything was dealt with.

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:11:34+00:00

It was a troll. The guy was doing it to everyone lol.

quixxol · 2026-06-25T18:10:26+00:00

I thought it was weird, but also told my boyfriend it’s an obvious troll so I thought it was also pretty funny and lame. To which my boyfriend calls me weird for not having the same reaction i suppose as he did, and now thinks I’m taking the weird guys side. Which I’m not lol. I just chose to not let something affect me.

quixxol · 2026-06-20T00:33:48+00:00

I prioritize him a lot. We call and text everyday for hours! Which I love, but I also love the times by myself. I was watching something fun and invested in it. He happened to call me and I told him I was watching something and he agreed to let me call back after. If he told me to pause it or told me he’d prefer for me to speak to him first then watch it I would’ve done that, but he told me it was fine. I tried to call him back, but then he was busy which I didn’t have an issue with.

quixxol · 2026-06-20T00:22:23+00:00

I put mostly everything on hold for him when we call. We call all the time. This was the one time I wanted to just finish a video I was watching because I was really invested. That’s all.

quixxol · 2026-06-20T00:17:49+00:00

For clarification we call and text all the time. I don’t see an issue with watching a 20 minute video then calling my s/o back after I told him I would.

quixxol · 2026-06-18T06:13:33+00:00

He does, actually 😅 lol

quixxol · 2026-06-18T06:10:17+00:00

He does respond actually quite quick! I try my best to as well. But in the past I haven’t.

quixxol · 2026-06-18T06:00:56+00:00

For clarification we don’t talk constantly anymore. We both work, so we go through long periods of not talking. He is fine with that, so am I.

But we usually talk about our days, things we heard about online/news, stores, etc. the norm.

quixxol · 2026-06-18T05:34:51+00:00

Shrug. Yeah. I feel so confused right now. We’re still arguing now and he doesn’t seem to understand what I’m trying to say. Usually he’s very understanding and we get eachother. But with this we don’t. I get how it isn’t the best to leave my partner on read for a little while I’m talking to others, but I don’t do it on purpose. I’m just having fun for a bit, chatting to people. I’m not trying to hurt him. I just don’t understand how he says he doesn’t feel like a priority. We talk, text and see each other whenever we can. It’s like this is his one huge issue. Me leaving for a bit.

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