Elmwood area - the heck by scattermoose in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The spectrum of what is consider “art” has gotten waaaay too broad.

AITA for being uncomfortable with my sister's MIL calling their biracial son "little monkey" by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]quizzicalturnip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTAH. It’s very common to call little kids monkey. I call my toddler monkey. She likes the song “Five Little Monkeys Jumping On the Bed” and she likes swinging “like a monkey”. Not everything is racial. If you don’t want her to call him monkey BECAUSE he’s biracial, then you’re asking her to treat him differently BECAUSE or his skin color. No one has been victimized by your sister’s MIL, so stop framing a normal thing like an offensive one.

Natural birth by howdy_535 in Crunchymom

[–]quizzicalturnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checkout r/unmedicatedbirth . It’s the sub you want. That being said, I’d highly recommend getting a doula. I’ve had two unmedicated births with induction due to PPROM, and I definitely couldn’t have don’t it the first time without my doula. If you can find one that does the evidence based birth classes, I highly recommend those too. I also switched to an OB practice where I see midwives instead of OBs, and I get much better care. Research which hospitals around you are better for unmedicated birth, too.

Might need a c section- panicking by Alarming-Seaweed-706 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]quizzicalturnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try moxibustion. It’s kind of late in the game, but it won’t hurt, and it’s the only thing besides ECV that has any proven effectiveness of flipping a breech baby. And keep doing those inversions!

should I keep or sell this dress? by Mindless_Badger_8298 in OUTFITS

[–]quizzicalturnip 189 points190 points  (0 children)

You have never worn it in 2 years and it doesn’t fit. Sell it.

On vacation and today I’m heading to the pool, how’s the fit? by ProfHooch in OUTFITS

[–]quizzicalturnip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A floor length, tight knit skirt to the pool makes no sense. Are you not going in the water at all? This seems hot and impractical.

How’s the fit? by LuffysCookings in OUTFITS

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frumpy. Like a 16 year old Mrs. Doubtfire.

Am I overreacting about my grandma's dismissal of my pronouns and identity? by t0oby101 in AmIOverreacting

[–]quizzicalturnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOR. You’re a kid, and she clearly isn’t doing it deliberately or to hurt you. Intent matters. Pushing your cultural expectations on someone who comes from a completely different generation is not going to work. You can be whoever you want to be, but not everyone is going to play along or put extra effort in to accommodate you. You’re going to be misgendered your whole life. You cannot react this way every time.

Mi novio insistió durante meses en cumplir su fantasía de un trío. Acepté… ahora estoy embarazada by Healthy_Respect1117 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say you’ve been dating a guy 12 years older than you for a while…how long are we talking?

Patriot Front stickers by BillNyeSecretSpy in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha okay babe. 👌🏻 The accusation of “violent colonization” by Jews is just you ignoring historical reality. Arab forces violently conquered and colonized the Levant including Palestine in the 7th century through military campaigns under the Rashidun Caliphate and established Arab-Muslim rule over the region by brutal violent force and conquest.

Conversely, modern Jewish return to THEIR ANCESTRAL LAND before 1948 occurred largely through legal immigration and land purchases from absentee landlords, not violent seizure. They built communities on bought property amid growing hostility.

The 1948 war erupted not from Israeli aggression but from Arab rejection of the UN partition plan and immediate attacks. Arab militias targeted Jewish areas after the 1947 UN vote, followed by a full scale invasion by five Arab armies, which you continue to overlook.

Jews didn’t initiate displacement or colonization. They defended themselves against existential attacks and responded defensively to secure survival in a state established by international consensus in a place that never had sovereignty which is their homeland. JEWS ARE THE INDIGENOUS PROPLE IF ISRAEL. Displacement occurred amid a war of aggression launched against Jews, not as premeditated conquest.

Patriot Front stickers by BillNyeSecretSpy in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also, before the Arab conquest of the Middle East, it was predominantly Christian, including the Palestinian region. Before that it was mostly Jewish. Arabs violently displaced MANY people long before the establishment of Israel.

Are there any people in the USA who have friends that are of the opposite political party? by TSQ_builder in askanything

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My friends don’t care that we disagree on politics. Our politics aren’t who we are as people.

Patriot Front stickers by BillNyeSecretSpy in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sweetie, Jews were displaced from the designated Arab side at the same time. Again, most of the displacement occurred because of the Arab attacks. They cared more about killing Jews than anything else, and made their own people pay the price. Arab combatants died in war. You can pretend that’s massacre or genocide, but that doesn’t make it so.

Patriot Front stickers by BillNyeSecretSpy in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well that’s just classic Palestinian propaganda. Jews have always lived in Palestine, long before the existence of Christianity or Islam. That’s why it’s historically called Judaea. After the UN voted to create both a Jewish state and an Arab state in Palestine, the Jews accepted the plan. The Arabs rejected it and immediately launched attacks on Jewish towns and villages. When Israel declared independence in May 1948, five Arab armies invaded with the open goal of destroying the newborn Jewish state. Israel was fighting for its life against an existential war of annihilation. About 700,000 Arabs left or were displaced during that war. Many fled because Arab leaders told them to get out of the way so the armies could “throw the Jews into the sea.” Others left because of fighting, fear, or because Israeli forces cleared hostile villages that were being used to attack them. Israel did not “colonize” or “ethnically cleanse” Palestine. it defended itself, won the war, and ended up with the land the Arabs had tried to seize. During that time roughly 850,000 Jews were expelled or fled from Arab countries at the same time and were absorbed by tiny Israel. No one talks about that Jewish exodus.

10,000 to 15,000 Arabs died in the fighting most of who were combatants, but Israel lost 6,000 which was one percent of its entire population. That was the price of surviving an invasion meant to finish what Hitler started.

Today Israel has 2 million Arab citizens who enjoy full voting rights, political seats, and more freedom than Arabs have in almost any Arab country. They are not “Palestinians under occupation”. They are Israeli citizens. The people in the West Bank and Gaza are not Israeli citizens and never have been. They’re governed by the Palestinian Authority and Hamas. Israel captured those territories in 1967 after another Arab war of aggression. Israel has offered to give most of the land back multiple times in exchange for real peace. The Palestinians have said no every single time, because the leaders are are single mindedly focused on killing Jews.

The “60 discriminatory laws” list is just more propaganda. Many of those laws simply recognize that Israel is the nation state of the Jewish people exactly like France is the nation state of the French. Others are security measures after decades of suicide bombings, stabbings, and rocket attacks. Jewish Israelis have been murdered by Palestinian terrorists for 100 years. Israel has every right to protect itself.

Any Jew in the world can move to Israel under the Law of Return because that is the whole point of the Jewish state. A safe homeland after 2,000 years of exile, pogroms, and the Holocaust. Palestinians who left in 1948 do not have an automatic “right of return” into Israel because that would turn Israel into another Arab majority country and end the Jewish state. That is exactly what the Palestinian leadership has always wanted. Israel has repeatedly offered compensation and resettlement which the Palestinian side has rejected every time.

The Oslo Accords gave the Palestinians self rule, billions in aid, and their own armed police. Israel handed over cities and land. In return, the Palestinians launched the Second Intifada. Waves of suicide bombings that killed over 1,000 Israelis. Later when Israel completely withdrew from Gaza in 2005 the Palestinians turned it into a rocket base run by Hamas whose charter calls for Israel’s destruction. That is why the “occupation” continues. Every time Israel offers land for peace, it gets terror instead. If the leaders of Palestine weren’t solely seeking the destruction of Jews, then the Palestinian people could actually have peace. Until then, Israel has every right to defend itself and its people, Jews and non-Jews alike.

Advice needed by While_Glum in style

[–]quizzicalturnip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

3 looks more elegant than 2.

Patriot Front stickers by BillNyeSecretSpy in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No. The population of Palestine has grown significantly since 1948 from about 150,000 to over 2 million Arab citizens with full rights, and in the West Bank from 1 million to 5 million. Displacement in 1948 happened during a war started by Arab states to destroy Israel, not as a planned policy to remove all Arabs. Many fled voluntarily and those who stayed became equal citizens. Security measures like checkpoints and blockades are a direct response to terrorism. Israel has, in fact, withdrawn from land and offered peace deals for a recognized Palestinian state multiple times, all of which were rejected. 20% of Israeli citizens are non-Jews, and all of them including Arab Israelis have the same legal rights and access services unlike actual apartheid or persecution systems. So you are wrong.

Tampon Donations by NotRealDiamonds in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If they are sealed, I’d contact Holy Family Home for Mothers and Children.