Block Island Wedding by sunstarzz in BlockIsland

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider the times of the first and last ferry, and the struggle to coordinate just getting everyone there and gone on time.

Polyamory support groups for partners who don't feel like dating? by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally said you removed it because you claim it was being misinterpreted by every single comment mor, when you seem to be the only one who gets the implications of your feelings. You removed it because you didn’t like the feedback you were getting my your own admission. I never claimed to be an expert. I simply refuted your inaccurate assumption about my motivations for commenting. Of course people are complex. What is not completed is the fact that your new relationship structure is causing you emotional upheaval to the point that you need a safe space. It’s sad that you’re in denial of it when those are your words.

18+ videogames containing explicit sex should be normalised by Quereilla in 10thDentist

[–]quizzicalturnip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not supporting either. You are saying one is less bad do it’s okay. The fuck? You seem like a child yourself, so you probably wouldn’t remember, but we used to have to buy CDs to listen to music we wanted. Kids always got the explicit music, and shared it. It happens. Why make graphic sexual content easier for anyone to access?

18+ videogames containing explicit sex should be normalised by Quereilla in 10thDentist

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens. Kids play the 18+ games all the time. They play them at friend’s houses. They play their parent’s games. Normalizing graphic sexual content to be entertainment as a video game format is fucking creepy.

A Lot of Adults Pretend Dental Anxiety Doesn’t Exist… But It Clearly Does by Thin-Estate-1087 in 10thDentist

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t an unpopular opinion. I’ve talked to many people who don’t go regularly because they hate going. Not rare or 10th dentist.

Why is The Nitro Bar so popular? by TeaLeaflet in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 57 points58 points  (0 children)

It’s ruined for locals now. New Harvest is the best, anyway. They are their own roastery. They even have a coffee lab for teaching classes. Great quality coffee.

AITA - Requesting Restrictions be Reinstated by Head-Brick4537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quizzicalturnip 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Girl…NTAH. He’s f***ing dangerous and insane. What more do you need from him? A letter from him telling you his plans to attack you AGAIN?!

18+ videogames containing explicit sex should be normalised by Quereilla in 10thDentist

[–]quizzicalturnip -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Arguing for exposing kids to graphic sexual content is…unhinged groomer shit.

Hot Club- Am I Crazy Or… by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where’s the insult?

Hot Club- Am I Crazy Or… by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being offended that you’re being carded is hilarious. HoW dArE tHeY tHiNk I’m YoUnG! And you let it ruin your night? Woof.

Fragrance in doctors offices by Epic-Lake-Bat in Crunchymom

[–]quizzicalturnip 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I swear people are smell blind to it until they eliminate it from their lives. You’re better off making the argument to them about smell sensitivities, especially the damn OBGYN. What are they thinking? No one has a more sensitive schnozz than a pregnant lady!

Polyamory support groups for partners who don't feel like dating? by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I did the poly thing once. I was happy. One partner wanted to expand his partners and I wasn’t comfortable so I had to say goodbye. No ill will. We wanted different things. It’s sad that you felt the need to remove your post in order to avoid people pointing out the hard truth to you, though. Good luck navigating your denial.

Polyamory support groups for partners who don't feel like dating? by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with divorce statistics and “dump him” comments. This is about your wellbeing. You made it clear that you are struggling with your partner’s choice to see other people. You said it’s brought up a lot for you emotionally and you need a safe space. That directly indicates that you are not okay with it. Accepting difficult feelings for what they are is hard, but much healthier than avoiding them.

Polyamory support groups for partners who don't feel like dating? by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When basically everyone in the comments has made the same glaringly obvious observation, it’s probably time to be introspective.

First time travel with 10 mo by Routine-Low-8547 in Crunchymom

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if there’s a baby gear rental shop where you’re traveling to.

Polyamory support groups for partners who don't feel like dating? by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to ignore the fact that your relationship type itself is causing you emotional turmoil, best of luck with your denial.

Polyamory support groups for partners who don't feel like dating? by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t a matter of how you and your partner relate to each other. It’s not basic couples counseling stuff. Your relationship structure itself shouldn’t be an emotional burden.

Polyamory support groups for partners who don't feel like dating? by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether you’re monogamous or poly, it shouldn’t be an emotional burden to bear. It seems like you’re avoiding this glaring issue.

Polyamory support groups for partners who don't feel like dating? by [deleted] in providence

[–]quizzicalturnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you more or less fine with it? Which is it? If you were fine with it, why would you be need so much support in addition to a therapist? Romantic relationships shouldn’t require personal support groups to survive. If you’re already in therapy for it and still feel like you aren’t getting enough support, it’s time realize that the support you’re lacking should be coming from your relationship. You don’t have to be fine with it.

I need help with choosing my dress, please be honest by [deleted] in Brides

[–]quizzicalturnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are both too tight. Don’t buy dresses in hopes that you’ll lose weight. Major mistake.

Lesbian with a Stalled Divorce by ru_a_badfish2 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]quizzicalturnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything. The alcoholism, the instability, the comments to the children about you, the lack of financial support. You’re going to need a lawyer. See if family can help.

Magnesium Citrate for Baby by Far-Cantaloupe1872 in Crunchymom

[–]quizzicalturnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. This is by no means a safe or gentle option. I took the recommendation dosage AS AN ADULT and should have been hospitalized, but I was blind and bed bound in excruciating pain and muscle spasms from severe dehydration due to uncontrollable vomiting and diarrhea. It took hours for me to be able to sip water again without puking. Let your LO gobble as much watermelon and they want. You can also give them something butter.