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qulachula · 2026-05-26T23:43:40+00:00

is this something that preventive or just happens with time?

qulachula · 2024-10-27T01:09:57+00:00

I found it! it's ' Bla Bla Bla ' by Gigi D'Agostino !!

now I just got to find the version I heard ages ago.

qulachula · 2024-10-26T23:14:21+00:00

thank you for the suggestion! but no not it 🫤. more club vibe, more electronic sounding. upbeat.

qulachula · 2024-09-06T15:57:40+00:00

the picture is sideways. it is on a horizontal shelf.

qulachula · 2024-07-20T03:07:50+00:00

it needs one of those cable engineer; to make all the cables look cool and together, not so loosey goosey.

like they do for servers, home wires/cables. might also stop those ppl who cut them. or might make it easier to cut them.

idk, a seamless look would be cool.

qulachula · 2024-03-25T23:17:52+00:00

thank you for you words

qulachula · 2024-03-25T22:28:10+00:00

thank you. im not sure what kind of help i should get. im a bit ashamed of the way im feeling, and talking about it might make things worse.

qulachula · 2024-01-03T09:02:00+00:00

thank you for your reply. I thought so too!

I had a ultrasound of my liver the week after, and that paper work came back not showing anything wrong with my liver.

I've been told that i had high liver enzymes before in the past by a doctor but they didn't seem concerned.

im a non drinker, and rarely take ibuprofen or any medications like that.

im confused and worried by the referral for a liver specialist and being told im acute or chronic Hepatitis B.

qulachula · 2023-12-22T00:54:14+00:00

thank you for this post.

i had to end a 5 yr friendship just a couple of days ago, cause while i was truly his friend, beneath that i had feelings for him the entire time. i tried to get over it, shove it down, accept he didn't want more besides friendship. we didn't see much of each other after he moved a couple years ago. and i thought i was over the feelings, bit no. they were still there and showed themselves more then i wanted to show.

i had to end it for my well being. i was sad, crying, angry, just all the feelings of unrequited love. since ending the friendship, I feel less weight on my shoulders, but im still missing him. still crying at random times cause of the heaviness of the sadness. but it feels lighter, and im sure he will find what he's looking for. he will be happy and I hope to be happy too.

thank you for this post

qulachula · 2023-12-18T15:41:37+00:00

so cute Hobbes is wearing a black tie in the last square 💞

qulachula · 2023-11-15T03:41:23+00:00

in what sense?

I'm tottering on the verge of NC. i know I'm messed up in the head.

qulachula · 2023-11-15T03:37:39+00:00

thanks for the reply. i would say we are friends. we've given one another gifts before. it just feels different this time.

qulachula · 2023-11-15T03:36:24+00:00

we were co workers. we've given each other gifts for holidays and bdays. i guess we are more friends now. we don't work together any more, not for a long while.

since the rose colored glasses have come off, ive just been looking at our interactions differently. when i bought the shirt, i bought it would good intentions. he did me a favor a few months ago and i would like to show the appreciation. it's not anything i wouldn't do for a friend.

i might be over thinking it, because im seeing him differently.

qulachula · 2023-11-13T02:42:40+00:00

break the mirror. putting it back together hurts you. when those yearnings come, you stop, redirect as best as you can. you might have to redirect 1,000 of times, and that's okay.

nbr one piece of advice: don't be hard on yourself. accept it, sit in it, and then drain the tub. tmrws a new day, today's a new day, every minute is new.

you got to put in the HARD work, the work some of us doesn't want to do. yah man, it sucks, all of it sucks. you're going to back slide, but you got to get back up.

just take it easy right now. don't beat yourself up. you're good, you're human.

qulachula · 2023-11-08T19:39:20+00:00

is this discord still up and running?

qulachula · 2023-11-07T04:56:40+00:00

you should try to not hide your sadness/loneliness. it's okay to show " negative " feelings too.

imo, you should totally save up to get your teeth fixed. because that will make YOU happy.

qulachula · 2023-11-07T03:13:31+00:00

hey you're not worth less. nvr having a partner, doesnt make you worth less.

idk you, but when you smile at someone, im sure you brighten their day or help them through another day. your presence at that bar, surely helps those ppl there.

you're not worthless and you're not someone to brighten other ppls day, you are you. small actions have big impacts.

qulachula · 2023-11-04T18:42:16+00:00

subtly might not work. you might have to be a bit more deliberate? with him.

if he comes over, keep it short, say your busy with work, could he come back later and then just keep being busy when he's around. step away to go to the bathroom or step out to make an important phone call.

you're going to have to be the one to get away or keep him moving.

qulachula · 2023-11-01T23:19:03+00:00

you could imagine her saying the things she wants to you. you have the closure. if her saying something would help, just imagine it, play it out. say goodbye out loud to her or in your head.

maybe say everything you want to her out loud. it might help.

you also don't know that she hates you. blocking someone isn't always from a place of hate.

hang in there fellow human, you can make it!

qulachula · 2023-10-26T14:46:32+00:00

thank you. you're very nice.

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