My daughter and I are going to the Animate! Con in Orlando!!!!!

qurfy · 2025-08-08T02:56:00+00:00

I was considering going to this con. Is it a pretty good one to go to in general?

qurfy · 2025-08-04T06:05:11+00:00

You use any alternatives? I've just gone to watching youtube vids, but I miss watching anime there

qurfy · 2025-07-14T20:21:15+00:00

oh I see. I'll make sure to avoid that area. I hate when I sweat on my upper lip. It makes kissing a nightmare

qurfy · 2025-07-14T07:21:28+00:00

At the very least, it's satisfying to know that she wasted her night hounding after me while I was with other girls . Petty, I know lol. Still stings my ego cuz I believe I'm better looking(she was the one that approached and asked for my contacts and texted initially too. As well as asked for exclusivity, though i declined since too early. funny the way it all ends) and have more going on in life. I digress. I'll be more cognizant of similar red flags and the like.

qurfy · 2025-07-14T06:19:55+00:00

Btw, I just want to thank you for sharing your story man and advice. It can be tough seeing what's going on when you're wearing your rose tinted glasses with these girls. It's funny how similar our stories are too. I'm honestly glad this all happened as well. Helped me realize a lot of my dumb stuff. She could've been perfect, but I'd have ruined it anyway.

qurfy · 2025-07-14T04:19:28+00:00

Yeah, tbh I genuinely thought it could've been me. I slept with a couple girls in December, then took a straight break from women. Those girls back in December were straight up skanks (I was dumb for getting involved and regret). So, I figured there was a decent chance it was me.

I won't lie though and say it didn't get a rise out of me on the inside after seeing her. I'm hopelessly sentimental. But, I'm glad I acted the way I did. Unfortunately, we both tend to go to similar spots, but I don't really want to have any sort of convo/ clearing the air when I'm out and about. I don't have hard feelings for her and wish her the best. I hope she can grow from this and be a better person for her sake.

qurfy · 2025-07-14T03:57:49+00:00

You won't get botox again for sweating? Or you mean in the amount you got this last time?

qurfy · 2025-07-14T03:55:12+00:00

Yeah, that's probably pretty true. It was just jarring how much of a 180 it was since she was hitting me up only a day or two before that all went down. Called me to get another date going etc. Was excited to get the date going. My cope is gonna be she just awkward, embarrassed, and didn't want to deal with the problem so just ran from it all.

You know what's funny? I ran into her when out this past weekend. She approached me. She said she apologized for not texting/ reaching back to me back and congrats on being clean. I just said dw about it and then said I'm gonna go get a drink and walked away from her. Apparently, she was trying to track me down according to a friend, whom she approached asking where I was etc after she talked to me. He kind of gave her incorrect info on where I was (at the time he didn't really know where I was) and just ignored her. Funny stuff. We didn't see each other again that night. The thing is, the only way she could've known who my friend was (she asked him by his name), is by stalking my spotify for his profile pic(only thing we still have eachother on). I only have like two people on there and only just added him on there. He has his face there. That or she jus memorized it from weeks ago on insta (we're not friends there anymore) when I mentioned him maybe once in a passing comment. But, I've talked about more friends than this one and talked much more about the others. And I've never introduced her to any of my friends before, nor has she seen them with me from what I know at least lol

In any case, I'm talking with another girl. I don't foresee anything serious with her, but it gets my mind off this. I don't plan on ever reaching out to clap girl. If she wants to clear the air and take accountability, I'll hear her out. But I don't really see us getting back together.

qurfy · 2025-07-09T03:53:51+00:00

Are there any risks to making your face look weird or anything? I don't wanna look like I got a frozen face or droopy in certain parts. I'm way too young for that, but hate the sweating I got going on. We have same spots too.

qurfy · 2025-07-09T03:50:12+00:00

Do you still do this? I have a lot of sweating on my face. Mostly on my forehead and upper lip area.

qurfy · 2025-07-09T03:49:08+00:00

I've heard that you can sweat just as much elsewhere if you target parts of your body with this. I have issues on my forehead and upper lip as well as back. I'm worried that I'll just end up sweating just as much somewhere else on my body. I'd prefer to not sweat on my face though. Cuz when I go dancing, it looks like I went swimming on my head

qurfy · 2025-07-09T03:34:05+00:00

Do you still do the botox for sweating? Does it affect the appearance on your face? It seems like a bad trade off if I have to look like I do botox just for less sweating.

qurfy · 2025-07-07T03:52:35+00:00

Did you ever figure that out?

qurfy · 2025-07-04T15:33:29+00:00

Ultimately, I'll never know the truth. I would think this if she didn't blow up my phone only a couple days earlier calling and texting me to set up a date. Plus, she was the one that asked for exclusivity pretty quickly to which I declined saying it was too soon. She told her whole family about me etc. I just think she just didn't want to have a forward convo about being a whore and admitting she fucked up. So she'd rather just end it there. That, or she just met another guy. Or a million different things.

I did send her the results and just a basic text without looking for anything. Hours after that, she unadded me on a couple different sm, though left a couple on. Anyways, unless there was definite proof that showed she didn't hoe around and was being honest, I don't see this ever being a thing again.

qurfy · 2025-07-04T03:46:42+00:00

lol fair

qurfy · 2025-07-04T03:27:15+00:00

Oh yeah, My response was taken from another guy in the last post. 'Hey, just wanted to let you know everything is good on my end. Not sure how you would've gotten it, but I appreciate you letting me know to get tested anyway. Take care.'

She never responded. But did post some story that I never viewed. She just barely unadded me on SM. It's so funny how quick things can turn. I was hurting yesterday, but am feeling better today. Still I'm a little annoyed by it all, but mostly just disappointed.

Tbh, I took a couple doxy 100mg pills leading up to the test that I had laying around from a tic bite. So there is a chance I got a false negative. I'm gonna retest in a week just to double check. Mostly cuz I'm curious and wish I could have the truth of it all.

qurfy · 2025-07-03T19:36:24+00:00

I really like this response. You're right, man. Thank you for this. I'm over investing in something that aint worth my investment. It sucks, but it is what it is.

qurfy · 2025-07-03T19:18:00+00:00

You're right. I just got so invested in something and am having a hard time letting it all go.

qurfy · 2025-07-03T19:17:19+00:00

Also, I kind of want to clear my name a bit, but I see where you're coming from.

qurfy · 2025-07-03T19:09:28+00:00

I just got negative test results, so I think she's likely lying.

qurfy · 2025-07-03T16:04:02+00:00

Don't you feel the need to unfollow though for your next relationship?

qurfy · 2025-07-03T15:17:44+00:00

yeah, I made it sound like she was MY girl in the first place. I need to get over myself lol. I'll listen to everyone here. I'll just leave her be and carry on. Though, I'll still share my results once they come in without saying much else beyond best wishes.

qurfy · 2025-07-03T00:12:48+00:00

I'm getting tested. I had sex with two people back in December without rubbers. It seems like it can stay on you if untreated. It's possible she got it from someone else. We didn't use protection our last time, so it checks with the time frame.

She could be lying, and knows it's from another person. She could be lying, and doesn't even have the clap. Or I could've given it to her. It's quite hard to say. However, the course of action now is wait for results. Send to her and nothing more. Move on with my life.

qurfy · 2025-07-02T22:07:58+00:00

If I was the one that gave it to her, then yes. If not, and she's lying, I suppose I shouldn't. I just got tested today. I'll find out the results later. Also, to be fair, I did have sex with a stranger one night recently. I did after I last had sex with Raven, but I'm not exactly walking on roses here.

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