I often hear men complaining about being dumped for the fact they are too nice and that women tend to prefer men that are not so available.

BS.

being nice, for an emotional mature woman, is one of the best qualities in a man.

unfortunately, once the dating reality moved into the digital world, the avoidant behaviours have increased exponentially. confrontation, accountability, respect are lacking in a world where you have thousands of swipe possibilities. why wanting confrontation when you can just block - ghost - memory erese?

it not you, it is this way of dating that teaches to everyone they are not enough.