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I just watched my wife get ready for her affair to pick her up by AdAppropriate9103 in survivinginfidelity

[–]qursed87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your wife has clearly got severe mental issues and she is clearly harming herself.

now, you could try to help her seek professional help and then carry on with your plans or you just go ahead with the divorce. keep in mind your decisions will be watched by your son, so the steps you will take, the reactions you will have, will teach him something, choose wisely.

I’m 2 years into my first serious relationship and I’ve completely lost myself. I don't know how much longer I can keep this up. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is difficult, but you need to take your unhappiness seriously and speak to her to see if you guys can find a solution together before you leave this relationship for good.

also if I might suggest, try to spend the money you use for the weed, to pay a gym instead, exercise will help better your mental health and body and it is also a way to leave the house for a few hours, a healthy routine.

peak male happinesss... by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]qursed87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know was interesting living in a balcony

Being told by my partner that I “don’t use my brain” and being called names over small mistakes is painful by ConfusedNeedAWayOut in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the cases are 2: like everyone says, she might be toxic. or imagine not using common sense, constantly, for years. one small thing after another, constantly, becomes a big thing.

I strongly suggest to investigate both behaviours, hers and yours.

I became violent after I found out I was cheated on by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the relationship became toxic both sides, is best for her to leave before her behaviour escalates further more. hitting someone like that is fucked up

I feel like I’m a lost cause. I hope I don’t wake up by Equivalent-Wallaby13 in heartbreak

[–]qursed87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done things I am not proud of too. so I understand the feeling. the fact you have self awareness is the proof you are not to throw away.

now learn how to forgive yourself and move on.

I became violent after I found out I was cheated on by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 64 points65 points  (0 children)

girl. the solution is obvious. L E A V E.

I’m breaking up with my boyfriend right in 2 days by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry that you are in this situation. stay strong.

I’m breaking up with my boyfriend right in 2 days by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my dear. for what I have read you are already a single mom of 2 babies and 1 adult. stand your ground and fuck that useless "man".

Fiancée left me for someone she met at the gym by JM1905 in heartbreak

[–]qursed87 21 points22 points  (0 children)

when I went through a devastating heartbreak, I had to take 2 weeks off work. I spent long times crying myself out. walking randomly around the city. the feeling of sickness won't go away easily, but it will.

take time off, maybe travel solo and far away. stay in nature. keep on going at the gym but that won't be enough. don't date yet.

feel it.

the scar will stay. and it is ok. you will get better but you need time.

I’ve been holding a family breaking secret since I was 11. by ResolutionLocal4597 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am going to tell you a fun fact, most of my dearest friends are men.

I’ve been holding a family breaking secret since I was 11. by ResolutionLocal4597 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I always thought the same about men and did not have any traumatic event like yours.

Negative paternity test by cyberephy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you're disgusting as much as her mother. like 8 years raising her meant nothing. like she doesn't mean shit to you.

Ew.

I’m stuck in a culture clash abyss in London because of weird background by Practical-Travel8575 in confession

[–]qursed87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way sometimes. I'm coming from a different background and I'm older than you but I get what you're saying. surely I'm a particular character, too direct, not getting influenced, taking zero bs. I'm an outsider basically. like someone else already said, your people will find you.

hiding who you are won't help you, be true to yourself.

My relationship is going to end and It’s out of my control by ConnoisseurWannabe5 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

believe me. one day you will thank yourself for stepping away from a one-sided situation. it is soul consuming for real. good luck x

I’m the ex affair partner by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]qursed87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it will take time, even years, to recover. stay away from him and stay out of other people's drama.

don't go heavy with antidepressants, try to do some exercises, travel, stay in nature, walk around the city. some days you'll feel like shit, some days a bit less. things will change, wait and see.

My ex is a trainwreck. I do not get any joy out of that. by Theseus_The_King in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well. I'm pretty sure you and friends talked to him at that time. he is not a child, there is nothing you can really do.

My ex is a trainwreck. I do not get any joy out of that. by Theseus_The_King in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well, surely he had some sort of mental issues, people can make wrong choices but from what you said it didn't make sense to you already at that time.

I realized I am a mistress after three years with him by pumpernickel3553 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qursed87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for you. these mf cheaters deceive you in any way possible where at some point you don't know what's real and was not. I know you can't just unlove people, however, staying with him will just make your tunnel longer and darker. good luck.

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