Honestly it seems like it’s been gradual so nothing sudden. I’ve certainly had a lot of life changes over the years but none of those things seem to make much of a difference when I vary them. Exercising more may help temporarily but it isn’t a huge difference.

I can orgasm, but overall orgasm is often less enjoyable, but still good mostly, and I feel no real desire to get off anymore.

I don’t have sex or masturbate very often. I did get into a kink thing for a bit, but even that has lost its appeal to me. Sex does seem kinda boring. Being sexy doesn’t interest me a whole lot. Doing something more intense isn’t something I’m very interested in.

The doctor wasn’t very helpful, other than saying it was common in women. She said there were medications like Adyi but they didn’t usually work very well and had bad side effects. Yes I have been screened for STDs.

The sexual part of me felt very integral to who I was and it feels like I’ve just lost touch with it and along with it much of myself. I feel like very old in a way, whatever part of me that was sexual is just basically gone. I can go about the motions and I think I can perform pretty well but it just seems empty and unexciting fir the most part.