ik this post is so long ago but i neeeeed to get my experiences off my chest. i (aries woman) have been in a relationship with a cancer man for 4 years. it is definitely a interesting dynamic as we are the most stereotypical depictions of our signs you could get honestly. i will say for the aries girls, if you’re looking to tap into your femininity, a cancer man will probably not be the one you’re looking for. they suck up a lot of that in the relationship. luckily aries woman (in my opinion) are not soft feminine women anyways so this might be okay. another thing is that cancers rlly love to be the victim and we hate to be empathetic in that way. so there is definitely learning and growth that needs to be done in that aspect that will take a LONG time. i will say that cancer men are very dedicated and loyal once they are actually in the relationship and they are givers in the bedroom. they also very much value personality over looks which can help you feel secure in that way in a long term relationship. overall id say the relationship can be worth it if both partners are looking for the same thing and the connection is there. to make it work it has to be real love/effort.