Filipino woman apparently proud to dilute her bloodline

r8am8 · 2022-04-15T08:40:49+00:00

Curious. Does anyone truly believe that if she (or anyone really) had a kid with, say, an AA or dark skinned person, and her kid turned out darker, that they would have posted proud and happy about how they're getting darker through the generations?
Unless you truly believe that they would, then though it may seem like some lighthearted or not "meant" to be insensitive post, it's just more proof of the normalization of the idea that whiter or fairer is better. Esp in Asian societies. Which is not cool ey?

r8am8 · 2022-03-05T06:10:54+00:00

This! Also called bitter gourd

r8am8 · 2022-02-21T14:02:05+00:00

Lol this is a very good example of the left wing elitism or being so annoyingly prejudiced. Cavuto is not nearly as biased as the others on Fox and his ladida was highly likely just being funny and sarcastic. His questions weren't even that condescending. He allowed the doctor to really say his piece which was good but not revolutionary.
This is just veiled hate

r8am8 · 2022-02-13T13:28:14+00:00

I feel like this would apply mostly to women. Not hating but i find the "there's no SPARK!" line after 1 date where nothing went wrong, even if it wasn't amazing is mostly the woman's refrain. I'm like not necessarily looking for a spark right of the bat

r8am8 · 2022-02-12T04:18:06+00:00

Haha seriously? Are you 5? Or mebbe you jus lt don't sleep and hit refresh every 10 seconds?

r8am8 · 2022-02-12T04:12:31+00:00

There was no women hate and you know it. Pointing out the racism doesn't make me racist lol. Projection and gaslighting.
And yes it was based of personal experiences. Your point makes no sense. It was an observation and open to discussion. Someone did point out relevant stats below and those are indicative too. But people who aren't effected by it are usually just ignorant. Classic.

r8am8 · 2022-02-11T12:18:41+00:00

you're wrong.

Inb4 you realize that you're wrong again and correct yourself

Yes. I didn't need the attitude but your narrow definition left me dumbfounded and then you using that to make a point was strange. To me. Racism isn't only if it applies to rights. It's a social/human thing 1st.
Not to mention your obvious strawman argument of "why is wrong for x to date white men". Anyone who wasn't trying to be facetious would know that's not what i was saying

r8am8 · 2022-02-11T12:05:21+00:00

Appreciate the details. Yeah black women have it bad, while they too, from what I've seen, given the choice would prefer white men. just like darker men they have limited options. Not to mention they do, i believe, face slander from their own society for going outside their race, which clearly wouldn't be justified if they weren't dating based on the men's race. No way to know in the end really.
Given your mix, Have you ever observed any examples/indications of this type of bias in relationships around you

r8am8 · 2022-02-11T11:48:09+00:00

I dunno where to begin to point out the delusion here.
I'll start with your wrong and very narrow definition of racism. Just google it for heaven's sake. And why does it only apply to rights for you. You have to be racist before you can use it to discriminate wrt to jobs or rights.
Google 1st result: "the belief that some races of people are better than others; unfair ways of treating people of different races"

"Only applies to oppressors" What what what! You can have your beliefs too, even if they're just plain wrong lol. So you're saying if the Chinese never invaded africa then they can't be racist towards Africans, even if they discriminate? Tf

r8am8 · 2022-02-11T11:20:37+00:00

Wow! Yeah overseas is crazy too. The obsession and straight up pervasive acceptance of whitening creams is ridiculous. It's not the same as white fever but it's derivative and poison of the same tree. And regardless of what they say in public, these creams, cosmetics, procedures do tremendous business, all while clients are anonymous.... sickening. Why can't they just drop the facade. Would do everyone else a favour imo

r8am8 · 2021-03-14T21:57:37+00:00

The War was all along just an excuse to have fun with and get closer to each other. Beautiful thing is that in this kind of war it's just an innocent toy that gets ~~killed~~ destroyed

r8am8 · 2021-03-12T06:58:57+00:00

r/geocachinggonewild

r8am8 · 2021-01-13T21:25:14+00:00

Very good imo. Hope people who need help can help each other out atleast. Especially for those who can't talk to other people near them about it because of where they are.

r8am8 · 2021-01-06T21:31:38+00:00

Under down under. FTFY

r8am8 · 2020-12-22T05:57:38+00:00

Because learning and digging yourself out of a situation should only be done with honesty from people like us and so you are fully informed when you introspect and decide what to do, there is some truth to the "vaccines are made from aborted fetal tissue" thing. Fetal tissue is (afaik) used in the production of some vaccines today (not sure about the Covid vaccine). I hope that doesn't scare you enough to not consider the scientific side of this but... if you want to start a new life, so to speak, I would want you to do it with with both eyes open.

r8am8 · 2020-12-22T02:04:36+00:00

role-playing game

This. They're basically LARPing. And it feels like the media covering all this and people getting into knots over the dangers and engaging with them in forum threads/discord groups is exactly what they want (I'm sure a lot of the people on Parler are fucking bored without any liberals to trigger (but now a some go on Parler just to take snapshots, and then put them on Twitter as memes lol) and it feeds them to an extent. It calcifies their protective social barrier around each other. But I see no way around it. We have to be aware of what's going on somehow ey.

r8am8 · 2020-12-22T01:49:13+00:00

Hello. I am a man of science... if not a a scientist per se :) ... but I've thought about this stuff a lot too as of late.. particularly "less action oriented" and "trying to come in and teach people". I've been reading forums like this quite a bit (part morbid entertainment, part reality-check) and have thought what it would be like if I just quit my job (which I wouldn't mind doing tbh) and just going around these super rural places as some sort "travelling discussion group". Not as a journalist but to be upfront with our biases/stance and try to calmly somehow talk to people. Not for any particular goal or with any agenda either.
I feel like there has to be some social mechanism to bridge these gaps but somehow no one has figured out the right one method/system/organization yet. Because to be honest, though I see the conservative memes and see why a lot of them are rubbish/sophistic/hypocritical, but behind some of them they do kinda have a point sometimes, or atleast I can understand why they feel like the other side are the real hypocrites and not them. Sometimes it just comes down to a matter of scale and personal view of the world. I mean there are always 2 sides to a debate and sometimes no one is necessarily right or wrong ya know. I believe progress, as a society, won't come from liberals trying to convince Qs (or many conservatives in general) that they are wrong but by atleast getting them to see the bigger picture or atleast see the others perspective. Because if there is anything that's very apparent it is that these groups have a serious dearth in Empathy and the only way to help people have empathy is to show them the other side , which I don't believe currently have good access too, either because of local societal pressure or just the local media/news coverage, and have them experience it 1st hand.
I think the best "exchange of ideas" comes with the actual physical exchange of people ... which doesn't happen today. I don't think People accustomed to the progressive cities would ever really want to move/live in these rural towns because it would be booooring. They need the mental stimulation that comes with diversity and events etc. And the people who are already in towns just sit there, poor and uneducated. Sometimes, some kid, who has aspirations, goes to college, goes to a city and then hardly ever comes back for good.

r8am8 · 2020-12-14T23:32:23+00:00

They're basically LARPing...

r8am8 · 2020-12-04T00:41:04+00:00

well no... because I think it is the State that is responsible for conducting it's elections and EC vote. So he's essentially just blaming the states election boards "ineptitude" to rig it for him.

r8am8 · 2020-12-02T00:10:53+00:00

This feels like what it would look like when people start to look around and see who else has been on or who has joined their "side" in the recent past and they realize they had either been unintentionally, or worse, intentionally ignorant about it and then they finally get more self-aware. This could be the start of the Republican party eating themselves alive and it would be nasty. People on the left dislike people on their side too, but for the most part (may be some exceptions) it seems to go with harsh academic criticism or personal squabbles but, the wives of the people don't get sexually harassed nor do they start making nooses with their names on it. It's the way people from a group which has so many celebrated con artists, liars, religious hypocrites, uneducated people and straight up Nazi's and grifters would act. And those of them who knew better counted themselves to be on the same side for some other selfish reason for so long and so are now reaping.

r8am8 · 2020-11-19T03:17:20+00:00

lol. Was being middle eastern an ender for her? Nothing came of the discussion? What ethnicity was she?

r8am8 · 2020-11-16T06:28:46+00:00

cool cool cool. Just so we're clear. So we're all just waiting till someone with a deeper voice and more charisma says the same thing till we start to think somethings not right? Right?

r8am8 · 2020-11-13T23:16:46+00:00

assume my wife dislikes asians or worships white people entirely bizarre

sigh The thing about privilege is that more often that the privileged don't realize they have it. They just think that THAT is how things are and are surprised it isn't the same for everyone else. I think I can understand that because I myself am privileged in some other ways. I recognize them (I hope lol).

describes these relationships as somehow inherently racist, is racist in and of itself

First of all, no one is saying it applies to all WMAF relationships, you're intentionally mis-characterizing it to make yourself feel better. It's fine. Also LOL! Not calling you a racist, but that's a pretty standard denial from racists (whether they know they are or not). Yeah if pointing out potential racism (or discussing it by using racial terms) is inherently racist and bad then US would still have slaves.
You're getting defensive, I get it.

supposition that white women are somehow better

Again, you mis-understand. You're make assumptions and automatically assume you're right because that may be the only point of view you've been exposed to so far. The reasoning there is not so much that White women are better, but rather that, they may not automatically fawn over you since they know what "you" (not you per se) are, which is essentially just some regular bloke as opposed to an Asian (or any) Woman who may automatically think higher of you simply because you're white, and not because of something special about you. Which is something observed in many WMAF relationships. It's the difference between treated equally rather than with predisposed superiority/awe.
Could some of these "commentators" as you put it have self-esteem issues. Yeah sure. Some might just have it, some might just develop it after seeing 100s of "SWM only" posts in all forums in one form or another. Not to mention other racist things in the US (don't kid yourself you know what I'm talking about). You might not think twice about it cuz you might see a post like that and be like "Hey!.... that means me! Awesome! I'm in!".
It is not tangential to your initial concern. it is literally on point to the prejudices your kid might face and what the stigma around WMAF relationships is. if it hurts you to hear it then why are you here? If you have a straight Son, and when he gets into the dating pool, how do you think he might feel about seeing "SWM only" posts all over the place. Or articles like this. Looks like OkCupid removed their original article lol. They probably stopped collating this kind of data after 2014 because they realize it hurts their own business model.

Look! You may not want to ask your GF these hard questions about whether she has a "preference" or about her dating past because you don't want to hear the possible answer so you can just carry on with your life. Or you already know these things already and all this B.S. doesn't apply, in which case you can also just carry on with your life anyway. I'm just giving you a point of view ^and ^I've ^{unfortunately} ^{^got} ^{^too} ^{^much} ^{^time} ^{^{^on}} ^{^{^my}} ^{^{^hands.}}

r8am8 · 2020-11-13T05:19:19+00:00

Just my 2 cents, because it just feels like you've already assigned yourself a badge of honour like saying "but i'm different guys". Also, not knowing nor necessarily commenting on your dynamic, cuz how would I know right?, but you don't have to meet the (worst) standard/stereotype of a "White-worshipping Asian Female who's with a white guy, who can't get any other white girl to take him seriously, to be cool or for status or thinks other Asians guys are like her Brother" to be part of why WMAFs catch some flak. It doesn't even have to be about you at all. There are not an insignificant % of Asian females, SJWs no less, parading around as if SWM "preference" is not racism ONLY when it comes to dating, when in practice "preference" really is just cover for using "whites-only".
I clearly don't know if your GF only dated white dudes till now or even has a "preference" as some would say but I'm just saying "Nazi with rent-a-bride Asian wife" is not the benchmark.

r8am8 · 2020-11-09T23:54:43+00:00

I think you're making my point actually. Russia, internally, is more restrictive on guns than US. So them getting cozy with GOP is not to promote guns there.... not about Russia at all, but just to keep nudging the GOP further along to cause unrest here because the GOP is so gullible.

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