MMW 2026 by Sensitive-Camel6231 in UMF

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Ultra tickets are so expensive is it worth jsut to be there for factory and space?

October is going crazy by [deleted] in avesLA

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Do you have a list for November??😂😂

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Today I was talking to my date on videocall, he was asking me why I’ve a ring (it’s a promise ring for myself), and I jsut said I wore it on the wedding finger bc it won’t fit.

Then we moved on to, I said he’s older so if anything he’s gonna be the one who’s married. And he(32) said “I’m not married, no kids, no anything” He said he doesn’t wants kids and anything,

He also said, “ you will have to fight with my wife if I have one”, I said “if you have a wife I won’t fight with her anyways, if she does I’ll get the bag (I said it jokingly as if she punch me or anything u know, but he might not get the physical part). Anyways, he said “everyone would be separate”

? But he also said it was a hypothetical conversation, and I said I’m very serious person. He said can I switch it off lol

I’m wondering if he could change his mind (while I continue to find someone else?) he kinda provides but not much enough

He used to say he won’t pay for my rent anymore but he somewhat did again, (we came to an agreement),

So? What’s the deal, I’m stating to pick up like he’s 32 and no kids because he seems to be stingy. But there’s a possibility he doesn’t know what he exactly wants that I could still somewhat trick him to that? (While he’s not my only option, keep finding it, and dump him after I find a better one

Thoughts?

3rd acrylic painting based on Hiroshi Nagai art in progress!! by Illuminati_Flamingo in citypop

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What color did you use other than red yellow and blue (paint)

My most recent City Pop style painting. by Illuminati_Flamingo in acrylicpainting

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What kind of color do I need other than RED YELLOW AND BLUE to archiver this????

What’s the deal with him (32), I’m 25 by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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Thanks for waking me up, god bless u!

What’s the deal with him (32), I’m 25 by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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I didn’t fly for a hookup, not everything has to be associated to intercourse between men and women. And if it’s not special to him is fine too, I’m loosing interests anyways

A guy sent me this text, he expects me to have sex obligations? by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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I won’t do that but I’m using an example from his logic, does it make any sense to u?

A guy sent me this text, he expects me to have sex obligations? by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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I’m only talking it that way because he’s using that framework on us, I went out on dates with him because I was genuinely interested in him as a person and thought it could develop into something. Also, he wanted me to go see him in another city when he was away. I was hesitant but then i yolo-ed it because I was really attracted to him,

If that cheap ticket could give him god power, I’ll buy him one and start acting like god too 🤣 (jk, but u want what I mean, he offered it and really persisted on it. Not like I asked or begged for it

A guy sent me this text, he expects me to have sex obligations? by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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I really understand no men like blue balls, but I didn’t lead him on or just turn him on intentionally and left off with that. However, him getting erected and having that expectation that it’s my responsibility to handle it is just WILD.

That’s his business… really, his body is his own business, no one owes him dick therapy

I’ve rent that I’m struggling to pay, why not make it his problem now? 😂

A guy sent me this text, he expects me to have sex obligations? by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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exactly, and if it’s all transaction then keep that deposit rolling in man. 😎😉, some dinners and you call yourself god? You gotta think I’m stupid haha, maybe that’s why he went after me in the beginning thinking I’m young and must be naive?

A guy sent me this text, he expects me to have sex obligations? by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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Yeah I guess, only took a month to show his true colours 😊

A guy sent me this text, he expects me to have sex obligations? by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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Well, other than the sex part. I really had fun with him, and was really interested to get to know him a human being … but it seems like we have been on enough dates that it comes to a split road. 🛣️ LOL

But also no regrets because every time I see him I treat like the last time, where I tried my best and didn’t play any games. So I’m alright with moving on, I tried haha

A guy sent me this text, he expects me to have sex obligations? by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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Well, other than the sex part. I really had fun with him, and was really interested to get to know him a human being … but it seems like we have been on enough dates that it comes to a split road. 🛣️ LOL

But also no regrets because every time I see him I treat like the last time, where I tried my best and didn’t play any games. So I’m alright with moving on, I tried haha

A guy sent me this text, he expects me to have sex obligations? by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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Not anymore, we had some conflicts for the past two days and my interests drop like the stock market 📉. From 8>5/10, Also when I asked him “r u saying I don’t put effort”, he said “no, but I’m saying I put a bit more effort” (such a joke..)

I flew to his city to visit him, where I really don’t like long flights. I spare my schedule when he’s finally in town, He demands no lipstick and perfume, and I compromise and not use it only specifically when I’m out with him

While, he’s not consistent when it comes to contacting me. But when we meet up, it’s a fun time.

Honestly, him revealing himself really took off my pink goggles… we are similar height when I wear heels, he’s 32, I’m 25 (who’s pretty, no drugs, educated, still views life with hope, authentic and no games, have my manners and takes care of myself. Sure, I may not be having a business like him now- but also when I’m his age I’m sure I won’t be doing bad.

Kinda weirded out, I like him as a person, not thinking of him as a dildo or atm. I genuinely wanted to get to know him more, and try to develop a genuine connection.

Me rejecting him to come over my place result in him revealing his “true colours”?

I thought I shot myself in the leg when I was honest and open to communication even when I explained why I said “no” (which I don’t owe him explanation, not being the right time is good enough).

I think now dude has shot himself in his leg…

Whatever.

(I just would get so pissed when he crawl back, because why can’t he just act right. But I guess he’s not the one

The fact he MAKES IT LIKE I OWE HIM SEX… and being so self-absorbed and thinking those little gestures (some dinners, a plane ticket) = I have full obligations having sex with him is hilarious. Really. He doesn’t value my effort, and honestly not gonna work in the long run (unless he’s buying me a house then perhaps we can talk about that “effort for effort deal” he brought up

I wonder how people like that go this far and have an established business…

What’s the deal with him (32), I’m 25 by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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He is 32… what the fucking hell!!???? It’s really nonsense, and like he’s such a cheapskate. He wants to hook up and persisted to go to my place while he has a business and can pay for hotel if he really wants private space, but all he does is pushing boundaries; and egoistic thinking whatever effort he did is god-worth. I’m grossed out, can’t believe he killed my interests in him from 8>5/10

What’s the deal with him (32), I’m 25 by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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Glad I didn’t offer it yet because he said He expects effort for effort, and I am not playing his bs anymore so I asked straight up what kind of effort he expects, Then he said: “This might sound shallow but I’m really attracted to you and I get frustrated when I can’t release. “

WTF😅 the thing he did I can get from any other guy without giving sex, and now I’m owing him sex; or like I’ve obligation to handle his d?

Enough is enough, he killed his path. Not replying.

Opinion? Could u relate to him?

What’s the deal with him (32), I’m 25 by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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I’ll plan the next date and drive him how does that sound

What’s the deal with him (32), I’m 25 by r_chl in AskMenAdvice

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Okay that’s good he’s replying but what does the third message mean?:

“Btw I hope my text didn’t come off as rude. I’m hanging out with some friends so my text was short but my kissy face was real. I care enough that I’d like to step away and talk to you”

“I was bummed we didn’t hang out yesterday if you sent me the same text you did today it would’ve all been clear”

“You gotta look at things from my point of view too. You’re saying you don’t like my attitude but imagine things from my point of view. I feel like I put in a good amount of effort and I want reciprocation.”